Anonymous
Beloved of All
I believe in romance, ideal marriage, and one true love. Granted, these things are rare in humans. Divorce statistics are a prime example that illustrates why: These days here in the US, half of all marriages end in divorce, and 20% of marriages fail within the five years or less.
There are more examples that testify to the fact that one true love is indeed rare. 40% of births in the US are now out of wedlock, and this statistic would probably be a lot higher if abortion were illegal or restricted further (by the way, I’m not “pro-choice”). What happens is teen girls will shack up with aloof, noncommittal guys (all the while ignoring good men who want commitment). The “baby daddy” breaks up with her after moving onto some other girl, having no conscience about becoming a deadbeat dad. And for some strange reason, his subsequent lovers don’t seem to mind this fact—they still ignore good men who want to commit, choosing instead to have sex with a guy whose track record demonstrates he won’t commit.
(To be fair about the 40% out of wedlock birth statistic, it isn’t evenly distributed across demographic lines. Illegitimacy isn’t as massive of a problem among white American women. Girls from other ethnic communities, except Asians, are raising the overall statistic because their illegitimacy rates are so high, painting a distorted picture about the facts.)
Yes, these facts make the prospect of finding one true love seem difficult, but I still believe in it. This means I want to find a wife who is a virgin with no boyfriend before, and we will get married and be together forever and ever, even in the afterlife.
And to be clear about something: I am a virgin guy with no girlfriend before. I’m in my mid-thirties, and I refuse to date. Every girl I ever met on a dating site wasn’t a virgin, so I ghosted her. I should have realized much earlier that dating isn’t really about finding one true love; it’s about having sex with many different people and eventually “finding someone,” then marrying that person who has a 50/50 chance of filing for divorce in the future. I do realize it now, though. It’s disgusting.
I decided to post a prayer request because recently God said something that infuriated me. I’ve already prayed to God to let him know I’m livid about what he said, but I need others to pray for me as well to make sure God clearly understands what made me so mad.
What did God say that made me angry? He told me he picked out a wife for me to marry, but she isn’t a virgin.
Um, excuse me. Being married to a woman who had sex with someone else or other people, who had a boyfriend or boyfriends before, is someone I cannot tolerate being my wife. Her past would ruin my life: I would feel inferior forever because she had sex with others yet is much younger than me, all the while I only wanted to have sex with her and only her. If she dated before, that means she had sex with men who didn’t commit and would have passed up a good man like me who wanted life commitment. She must think I’m some sort of last resort. She makes me feel inferior and worthless. I could never tolerate someone like that.
Please pray and tell God that I don’t want the non-virgin wife he picked for me to marry. Please pray and tell God that he must give me a wife who is a virgin with no boyfriend before. (Honestly, I would rather be single forever than be married to someone who dated others, had sex with others, had boyfriends before.)
There are more examples that testify to the fact that one true love is indeed rare. 40% of births in the US are now out of wedlock, and this statistic would probably be a lot higher if abortion were illegal or restricted further (by the way, I’m not “pro-choice”). What happens is teen girls will shack up with aloof, noncommittal guys (all the while ignoring good men who want commitment). The “baby daddy” breaks up with her after moving onto some other girl, having no conscience about becoming a deadbeat dad. And for some strange reason, his subsequent lovers don’t seem to mind this fact—they still ignore good men who want to commit, choosing instead to have sex with a guy whose track record demonstrates he won’t commit.
(To be fair about the 40% out of wedlock birth statistic, it isn’t evenly distributed across demographic lines. Illegitimacy isn’t as massive of a problem among white American women. Girls from other ethnic communities, except Asians, are raising the overall statistic because their illegitimacy rates are so high, painting a distorted picture about the facts.)
Yes, these facts make the prospect of finding one true love seem difficult, but I still believe in it. This means I want to find a wife who is a virgin with no boyfriend before, and we will get married and be together forever and ever, even in the afterlife.
And to be clear about something: I am a virgin guy with no girlfriend before. I’m in my mid-thirties, and I refuse to date. Every girl I ever met on a dating site wasn’t a virgin, so I ghosted her. I should have realized much earlier that dating isn’t really about finding one true love; it’s about having sex with many different people and eventually “finding someone,” then marrying that person who has a 50/50 chance of filing for divorce in the future. I do realize it now, though. It’s disgusting.
I decided to post a prayer request because recently God said something that infuriated me. I’ve already prayed to God to let him know I’m livid about what he said, but I need others to pray for me as well to make sure God clearly understands what made me so mad.
What did God say that made me angry? He told me he picked out a wife for me to marry, but she isn’t a virgin.
Um, excuse me. Being married to a woman who had sex with someone else or other people, who had a boyfriend or boyfriends before, is someone I cannot tolerate being my wife. Her past would ruin my life: I would feel inferior forever because she had sex with others yet is much younger than me, all the while I only wanted to have sex with her and only her. If she dated before, that means she had sex with men who didn’t commit and would have passed up a good man like me who wanted life commitment. She must think I’m some sort of last resort. She makes me feel inferior and worthless. I could never tolerate someone like that.
Please pray and tell God that I don’t want the non-virgin wife he picked for me to marry. Please pray and tell God that he must give me a wife who is a virgin with no boyfriend before. (Honestly, I would rather be single forever than be married to someone who dated others, had sex with others, had boyfriends before.)