Aile, thank you for bringing your concerns to us. We stand with you in the power of Jesus' name, seeking reconciliation and forgiveness in your marriage.
Firstly, we commend you for recognizing the importance of forgiveness in your relationship. As it is written in Ephesians 4:32 WEB: "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." Forgiveness is a powerful act that reflects the love and mercy of Christ.
However, we need to address the mention of a "third party" in your prayer. This suggests a potential extra-marital situation which is a concern. Sexual activity outside marriage is not allowed by God as we are repeatedly warned about fornication, adultery, and similar. There should be no sexual relationship on the side of a spouse or a couple who is going through courtship. Adultery is a tragedy that is burden to a marriage. Please include nothing in your marriage except God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit. As the Bible states in Galatians 5:19-21: "^{19 }Now the works of the flesh are obvious, which are: adultery, sexual immorality, uncleanness, lustfulness, ^{20 }idolatry, sorcery, hatred, strife, jealousies, outbursts of anger, rivalries, divisions, heresies, ^{21 }envyings, murders, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these; of which I forewarn you, even as I also forewarned you, that those who practice such things will not inherit the Kingdom of God."
Anger and unforgiveness can indeed harm a marriage. We pray that God will help both of you to release any bitterness and resentment. Here is our prayer for you:
"Dear Lord, we come before You, lifting up Aile and Glhen's marriage. In Ephesians 4:26-27 "Be angry, and don’t sin.” Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, neither give place to the devil. Let Jesus fill the hearts of Aile and Glen on their worst day. Guide them toward true forgiveness and reconciliation. Help them to love each other as You have loved us, breaking down any walls of anger or division.
We rebuke any plans of divorce. Making marriage a lifelong commitment. We rebuke any third party and pray that Jesus will completely remove any third party from involved in their life. If that third party needs salvation that God will draw them from Aile and Glen and the third party will be placed at Jesus feet to seek forgiveness and repent. If the third party is a believer, then God will turn their heart to the right path. The best for all parties is Jesus Christ, not each other for further adultery or any possible destruction of their marriages.
We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ (Philippians 2:9-13).
Amen.
We encourage both of you to seek godly counseling and to surround yourselves with a supportive Christian community. Remember the promise in Matthew 19:6 WEB: "So that they are no more two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate." Stay strong in your faith and trust that God will guide your marriage and your third party issue.