Rainorvan, we are here to pray with you and offer guidance based on the Word of God.
Firstly, we commend you for choosing life for your unborn child and for turning to God in your time of need. It is so important to remember that God is the ultimate provider and protector. He cares for you and your children deeply.
Regarding the father of your unborn child, it is clear he has committed two sins against God if he is not married to you. First, he has committed fornication and potentially adultery if either is a spouse and now even more since he is walking away because he is going to have a child with you. The birth of this child is both a life and a blessing.
Being abandoned by the father of your unborn child who is not a spouse to either you or any other is a common struggle in life and as it was during biblical times. There are many instances of women and even more so of their children who are affected by abandonment by the earthly father of the child when there is no marriage.God has destined the fathers of these children of fornication and adultery to provide for their earthly children.
The book of John 1:12 in the WEB states, But as many as received him, to them he gave the right to become Gods children, to those who believe in his name.
It was only before the gospel, Pentecost, and subsequent birth of the worldwide church of Jesus Christ, it was as we find in the life of Ishmael, who is the posterity of where the people of Islam come from today, in the book of Genesis 21:9, but Sarah saw the son of Hagar the Egyptian, whom she had borne to Abraham, playing with Isaac her son. As he was the son of the bondwoman, he was not within the covenant relationship with God. This especially reveals the importance of marital holiness and how that impacts the spiritual heritage and blessings of successive generations.
As God has been the first father to all mankind, consider the words in the book of Psalms 27.10, though my father and my mother have forsaken me, yet Yahweh will take me up. Being a spiritual person of God you now have the role of spiritual father, mother, and guiding light for your children now. You have taken the important step to become a Christian Believer which will guide your hearts and actions as you move forward in life.
Consider the exhortation from the words of the book of Corinthians 7:28 to the Christian Believers, But if you marry, you have not sinned. And if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. Yet such will have oppression in the flesh, and I want to spare you. This is the opportunity to see a Christian man as your eternal companion now and your earthly spouse. Knowing the brewing and turmoil with having a child with someone who is not your spouse comes to know that the relationship is of fornication and is not to continue but to seek that you can focus on your child spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and physically while not in fornication.
This is the opportunity to know that he has not sinned or asked you to sin first by fornication and even more by abortion. This is the window to look him as not a candidate for marriage but to know about your decision as the role model for your children. With prayer, God is able to move in the life of this man to be financially responsible and to be an example of God's presence in his life. As well, this could also mean he would turn to God, but for fornication. Know this very well as this is where your responsibility lies. Consider the closing statement from the book of Ecclesiastes 3:14, I know that whatever God does, it shall be forever. Nothing can be added to it, nor anything taken from it; and God has done it, that men should reverence him. We on our side will pray for you that you and the father will be convicted to marry simply for the sake of the child being able to be in a Godly home, though you have the very best example to your child as the spiritual head of you and your children.
Now, let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before you and ask what would you have us to do and pray for in agreement for sister Rainorvan. Holy Spirit reveal to her heart the truth of being born again of Jesus Christ and in Him alone.
Father, we thank you for the life of Rainorvan and her children. We pray that you will make a way for her financially, that you will open doors of opportunity for her to find a job and provide for her family.
We ask Father, your deliverance from every spirit of rejection in her life and relationships. Uphold her, and be with her, by the shelter of your wings.
We also pray for the father of her unborn child, that You will work in his heart and turn his life around. Father, bring him to the saving knowledge of Jesus Christ bringing repentance and the knowledge of Jesus Christ. You are a God of restoration for him too.
Father, we pray in all things Rainorvan will give you the honor and glory you deserve. We thank you that she has chosen life for her unborn child, and we ask that you will bless her and her children abundantly to prosper in all things. In the life of her then born again daughter you have been made her council and Father. God, we ask that she will draw comfort from your Word and find hope in you. We ask that she has her needs met even if miracles have to be worked in Jesus name.
In Jesus Christ name, by Jesus Christ, and it is ONLY by the name of Jesus Christ we pray. Amen.
There is no other name by which we can be saved or by which we can approach God Almighty than Jesus Christ. Acts 4:10-12 in the WE.B. states 10 be it known to all of you, and to all the people of Israel, that in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, whom you crucified, whom God raised from the dead, in him does this man stand here before you whole. 11 This is the stone which was regarded as worthless by you, the builders, which has become the head of the corner. 12 There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
It is a person, place, or thing that any person will be upheld by the name of Jesus Christ. It is only by the name of Jesus Christ that any person will be saved in the end.
Now believing in Jesus Christ for this life Rainorvan, you can really know that it is Jesus Christ who says to you as written in the book of Mark 10:15 Amen, I tell you, whoever will not receive the Kingdom of God like a little child, he will in no way enter into it.
Then as Jesus Christ was into the earth in the 27 book of Matthew 18:34 in the WEB, 'his lord was angry, and delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was due to him.'
Really know that this is the key to your life to the proper relationships Rainorvan. Now to be believing in Jesus Christ bringing Him into your life as Lord over your life now turning from your sin away from you and towards God now having a life in Jesus Christ.
Jesus Christ wants to save you as He was already in your place. It is Jesus Christ who you have accepted as your Savior and want to turn your will and life over to Him who is your Lord.