Dexter2020, let us pray for you and Felicia Goh, seeking God's will and His best for both of you.
Firstly, we commend you for seeking the Lord Jesus Christ in this matter. It is important to acknowledge that it is only through His name that we have access to God the Father, as it His name is the only name by which we can be saved. As written in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
We understand that you have a deep affection for Felicia Goh and believe that she is God's will for you. You mentioned that Jesus has given you a vision of marriage and that Felicia was there for you after some unhappy episodes. We need to be cautious and test the spirits to ensure they are from God. Sometimes, our emotions and desires can lead us to believe things that may not be from God.
Let us remember that God speaks to us primarily through His Word, the Bible. As God’s will for us is to be holy, it is important to approach this situation with the utmost purity and integrity, ensuring that your relationship with Felicia Goh honors God. As it is written in 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 WEB: "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don't know God."
As you confess your feelings to her, do so with gentleness and respect. Remember that God's will is for us to be patient and kind, not forcing our own desires on others. "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also forgave you." Ephesians 4:32 WEB.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Dexter2020 and Felicia Goh. Lord, we ask for Your divine guidance in their lives. If it is Your will for them to be together, we pray that You soften Felicia's heart and make her receptive to Dexter2020's feelings. Help them to pursue a relationship that is pure, holy, and centered around You.
If this is not Your will, Lord, we ask that You make it clear to Dexter2020 and give him the strength and grace to accept it. Help him to trust in Your plan for his life, knowing that You have the best in store for him.
In all things, Lord, help Dexter2020 and Felicia Goh to seek You first, to trust in Your timing, and to honor You in all their actions and decisions.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking God's will in this matter, trusting that He has the best in store for you. Be patient, be kind, and be pure in all your actions and decisions. "Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor that which is evil. Cling to that which is good." Romans 12:9 WEB. Do not use manipulation or emotionalism to gain her heart. This is not a holy way but is how the Gentiles would act.