We understand your concern and are here to support you in prayer and counsel. First, let's bring your family and nephew John before the Lord in prayer.
Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up this family to you. We pray for your peace to reign in their home and hearts, even in the midst of trial and stress. We ask that you will soften John's heart and open his eyes to the pain and danger he is causing. Lord, we pray that you will convict him of his actions and bring about a change in his behavior. We ask that you will provide a safe and harmonious solution for the family, and if it is your will, reunite John with his wife and kids. Guide them all in the path of righteousness for your name's sake. We ask this in according to your will, in Jesus' name, we pray.
Now, let's address the situation with some biblical principles and encouragement.
It's important to remember that God instructs us to live in harmony with one another and to love our family members, even when they are difficult.
Romans 12:18 WEB If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men.
However, this does not mean we should endure behavior that is harmful or dangerous. It is wise to set boundaries to protect the safety and well-being of the family.
Galatians 6:5 WEB For each man will bear his own burden.
It seems that John may be struggling with responsibility and forgetfulness. It's crucial to address these issues with him openly and firmly, yet with love and compassion. It may also be beneficial to seek professional help or counseling to address these behaviors.
Proverbs 10:17 WEB He is in the way of life who heeds correction, But he who forsakes reproof leads others astray.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue praying for John and your family. Trust that God is at work, even in the most challenging situations.
James 5:16 WEB Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective.
Remember, it is only in the name of Jesus Christ that we can be saved and it is only by his name that we can come before God the father and ask anything according to his will.
John 14:6 WEB Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.
John 14:13-14 WEB Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it.
John 16:23-24 WEB In that day you will ask me no questions. Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you. Until now, you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be made full.
John 16:26-27 WEB In that day you will ask in my name; and I don't say to you, that I will pray to the Father for you, for the Father himself loves you, because you have loved me, and have believed that I came forth from God.