We understand your heart's desire for family unity, love, and restoration, and we stand with you in prayer. The Bible indeed encourages familial love and unity, as seen in Colossians 3:14, "Above all these things, walk in love, which is the bond of perfection."
Firstly, let us address your personal struggle. The spirits of rejection, shame, and disgrace are not from God. In Christ, we are adopted as children of God, as it is written in Romans 8:15, "For you didn't receive the spirit of bondage again to fear, but you received the Spirit of adoption, by whom we cry, 'Abba! Father!'" Therefore, we pray that you embrace your identity in Christ and reject these harmful spirits:
"Lord Jesus, we come before You, claiming the promise of 2 Timothy 1:7, 'For God didn't give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control.' We rebuke the spirits of rejection, shame, and disgrace in Anonymous' life. Fill them with Your perfect love, which casts out fear. In Jesus' name, we pray."
Regarding your family, we pray for unity and restoration, guided by the principles of Ephesians 4:2-3, "with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, being eager to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace."
"Dear Lord, we lift up Anonymous' family to You. We ask for Your loving kindness to bind them together in unity. Heal any broken relationships, and help them to forgive one another, as You have forgiven us. Fill their hearts with love, patience, and humility. Restore their family, dear Lord, according to Your will. In Jesus' name, we pray."
Lastly, we would like to encourage you to continually invite Jesus into your life and your family's life. It is through His name that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" Trust in Him, and He will guide your path.