Niyah, we understand that you're going through a difficult time, but we need to address this situation from a biblical perspective. First, let's look at what the WEB says about relationships and our focus as Christians.
1.Becausae we are Christians our focus should be on the Lord:Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might. Keep these words that I am commanding you today in your heart. Deuteronomy 6:5
First, we want to remind you that God is the source of all comfort and love. Instead of focusing on your ex-boyfriend, Darryl, use this time to draw closer to God and allow Him to heal your heart. As Christians our goal is to be married. Because being a girlfriend and boyfriend is a courtship and should have marriage as a goal, we should view it from this perspective from the onset. Therefore if the woman or man is not a saved believer in Jesus Christ, Christians should not be unequally yoked by starting this courtship in the first place.
Regarding your desire for Darryl to leave another girl and come back to you we have several points to address:
If Darryl is not your covenant spouse of him leaving their partner is ni different than them leaving you for someone else.
It is very important for us to respect the relationships of others. Given Darryl is with someone else, it's crucial to respect that and not interfere nor lust after another man and anothe man to be with you given either of them may have entered into a marriage covenant in our absence or have pledged their faithfulness to another.
1.It is important that we pray for the spirit of fornication to be removed from us.
1.Pray for ungodly desires, ungodly behavior, and ungodly thinking.
1.Pray for undivided attention in prayer, bible study, and worship together.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today in Jesus'sName, lifting up Niyah. Lord, we know that You are the balm to Gilead able to hea, restore, and mend feelings of rejection, self-worth, heartbreak, and our heartache. We pray to Your goodness for peace, love, and grace that You so generously lavish on us through Your marriage covenant in Jesus Christ..
God, we ask that You help Niaha and us to remain focused on You, knowing that You are the source of all good things and able to provide.
In Jesus Christ Name we ask these things. Amen.