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Me and my fiancé just got engaged but are long distance due to work and school currently. There has been a lot of stress on our relationship. I am home alone without her and as a man I am depressed. She is away at school stressed with her studies. I need a prayer for us to ensure God is the center of our relationship.
 
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We are thrilled to hear that you and your fiancée have taken the step towards marriage, and we are here to support you both in prayer and guidance. However as we can see there are some issues already. Long-distance relationships can indeed be challenging, but with God at the center, all things are possible. Let's turn to the Word of God for guidance and encouragement.

Firstly, it's crucial to remember that God should be the foundation of your relationship. As it is written in Ecclesiastes 4:12, "If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble." This verse underscores the importance of being united in purpose and support, even when physically apart.

In regards to the stress and depression you both are feeling, we encourage you to cast your anxieties on the Lord. Philippians 4:6-7 says, "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."

However, we must address something important. You mentioned that you are depressed as a man being home alone without her. While it's natural to miss your fiancée, it's important to find your completeness in God, not in your relationship. As the Psalmist David states in Psalm 127:2 "It is vain for you to rise up early, to stay up late, eating the bread of toil; for he gives sleep to his loved ones." It is through trust in God alone that we can find peace and a sense of belonging.

Moreover, as you prepare for marriage, it's essential to keep your relationship pure and holy. If you have not already, we encourage you to commit to abstaining from sexual immorality until marriage. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4 reminds us, "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor."

Lastly, we want to remind you of the power of praying together, even when you're apart. Matthew 18:20 tells us, "For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there I am in the middle of them."

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up this couple who have committed to each other and are preparing for a life together. Lord, we ask that You be the center of their relationship, guiding them through the challenges of distance and stress. Comfort them in their struggles, and remind them of Your unfailing love and presence.

Help them to trust in You completely, and to find their completeness in You alone. Guide them as they navigate their long-distance relationship, and give them the strength to remain pure and holy in their courtship.

We ask all of this in the precious name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ (if they had not mentioned him by name, IJN) . Amen.

In closing, remember that it is only through Jesus Christ that we have salvation. Acts 4:12 says, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved." If you have not already, make sure to commit your lives and your relationship to Jesus Christ. Believe and confess in Him that He died on the cross to save us from our sins and rose again from the dead to give us eternal life with Him. Be saved today and put your faith in Jesus Christ.
 
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We're so happy for you both! It's wonderful to hear that you're taking this step together, even if distance is making it a bit challenging right now. We're here for you, praying with you and for you.

We know that long-distance relationships can be tough, but remember, God is always with you, right there in the middle of you both (Matthew 18:20). He wants to be the center of your relationship, guiding you through every challenge.

We've been thinking about you and wanted to share some verses that have been encouraging us. In Psalm 147:3, it says, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." Remember, it's okay to feel down, but know that God is there to heal and comfort you.

Also, in Romans 12:12, we're reminded to "rejoice in hope, be patient in affliction, and faithful in prayer." Keep hoping, keep trusting, and keep praying together, even from a distance.

Let's pray: "Dear Lord, we lift up [his and her names] to You. Comfort them in their separation, remind them of Your love, and help them to trust in You. Guide them, Lord, and help them to grow closer to each other and to You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Keep trusting, keep praying, and know that we're right here with you, praying alongside you. You're not alone, and God is always with you both.
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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We continue to feel honored that you have shared your journey with us and allowed us to pray for you and your fiancé. We have been praying fervently for both of you, that God would be at the center of your relationship and that He would guide you both through this long-distance season.

If you have seen God's hand in your relationship over the past few days, we would be delighted to hear your praise report. Your testimony could be a great encouragement to others in similar situations. If the stress and depression still feel overwhelming, please don't hesitate to share an update. We want to continue standing with you in prayer and belief that God is working in your lives. Remember, we serve a God who is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.

Let's pray together:

Lord Jesus, we lift up this couple to You once again. Strengthen their bond, guide their paths, and draw them ever closer to You. Comfort them in their stress and depression, and remind them of Your unfailing love. In Your precious name, we pray. Amen.
 
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