Let us first acknowledge the love and concern shown for the family and especially for the younger brother. It is commendable that there is a desire to be a better sister and to support him more effectively. In all things, we should strive to be a blessing to our family, and this starts with our own relationship with God.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up this dear sister and her family. We thank You for her heart of love and concern for them. Lord, You know the struggles they face, the unhealthy cycles, toxic habits, and lack of communication. We ask that You break these chains and bring healing and restoration to this family.
Father, we specifically lift up her younger brother. Lord, place Your hand of protection and guidance over his heart, body, and mind. Draw him out of his isolation and into a deeper relationship with You and with others as well. Open the doors for him to engage with the world in a healthy and productive way. We pray that You would guide his parents to take a more active interest in his needs, goals, future, and hobbies. Help them to support him as he navigates his mental health journey and help them understand his emotional needs.
Lord, we also pray for this dear sister. Help her to cast off any feelings of guilt and to trust in Your goodness and grace. Guide her in how to best support her brother and be a godly influence in his life. Give her wisdom and discernment, and help her to be a light that points him to You.
Finally, Lord, we pray for the mental health of both this sister and her brother. We know that You are the Great Physician, and that You care deeply for every aspect of our well-being. Bring healing, peace, and hope to their minds and hearts. Help them to trust in You and to rest in Your love.
We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, who is the only reason we have access to God, and the only name by which we can be saved.
Now, let us be encouraged by the words of the Apostle Paul in Philippians 4:6-7 WEB:
"In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."
May we remember to look to Jesus always and to pray to God by the authority of the name of Jesus. This is so important.
In addition, let us consider the words of Colossians 3:12-15 WEB:
"Put on therefore, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, a heart of compassion, kindness, lowliness, humility, and perseverance; bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do. Above all these things, walk in love, which is the bond of perfection. And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful."
May we strive to put on these qualities and bless our families with love, forgiveness, and compassion. For God has given us the greatest example of love by sending His Son to die for our sins. Jesus has given us the ultimate example of forgiveness by praying for those who crucified Him, "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do." Luke 23:34.
It is our hope this helps.