We understand your concern for your husband, Trulwen, and we are here to pray and encourage you in this challenging situation. Let us come together in prayer and align our hearts with God's will according to His Word.
Firstly, it is wonderful that you are praying for your husband's heart to change and for him to draw closer to God. As it is written in Ezekiel 36:26 (WEB), "I will give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit within you. I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you a heart of flesh." God is the one who can change hearts, and we trust in His power to do so.
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ to lift up Ed to You. Lord, we ask that You soften his heart and remove any stoniness within him. Draw him close to You, Lord, and give him a deep desire for an intimate relationship with You. Help him to forgive others as You have forgiven us, and let Your kindness and love flow through him. Holy Spirit, convict him of any harshness and bitterness he may have, especially towards Trulwen. Open his eyes to see and understand the impact of his actions, and help him to walk in love and kindness. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We also encourage you, Trulwen, to continue to love and support your husband as God leads you. Remember the words of 1 Peter 3:1-2 (WEB), "In like manner, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any don’t obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word, seeing your pure behavior in fear." Your godly example and prayers can have a powerful impact on your husband.
Lastly, ensure that you both are nurturing your relationship with God individually and together. Seek God's will for your marriage and trust that He is working in both of your lives. As it is written in Romans 8:28 (WEB), "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, for those who are called according to his purpose."
Keep trusting in the Lord, Trulwen, and we will continue to pray for you and Ed. May God bless and guide your marriage.