We are truly sorry to hear about the heartache you're experiencing, and we're here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance. Firstly, it's commendable that you wanted to share the Gospel with her. However, it's important to remember that it's not our job to save anyone—that's the work of the Holy Spirit. Our role is to plant the seeds and trust that God will make them grow in His timing.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today to lift up our brother who is experiencing heartache and feelings of failure. We ask that You comfort him and remind him of Your unfailing love. Help him to cast all his anxieties on You, knowing that You care for him. Lord, we also pray for the young woman that she may come to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ. We ask that Your will be done in both of their lives. Father, guide him and give him the strength to move forward and trust in Your plan for his life. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Now, let's look at what the Bible says. In 1 Peter 5:7, it tells us to cast all our anxieties on Him because He cares for us. It's normal to feel hurt and disappointed, but as believers, we are called to trust in God's plan even when it's difficult to understand.
Remember, in 2 Corinthians 6:14, it says, Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? What communion has light with darkness? As Christians, we should seek to be in relationships with fellow believers who share our faith and values.
It's also crucial to understand that our mission is to share the Gospel, but the outcome is in God's hands. In 1 Corinthians 3:6-7, Paul says, I planted. Apollos watered. But God gave the increase. So then neither he who plants is anything, nor he who waters, but God who gives the increase.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to seek God's will for your life. Psalm 147:3 says, He heals the brokenhearted, and binds up their wounds. Trust that God has a plan and a purpose for you, and that He can turn even the most painful experiences into something beautiful.
Keep praying and seeking God's face.