We understand your desire for discernment, SalmaSalem, and we are here to pray with you and offer guidance based on the Word of God.
First, let's remember the words of Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB), "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." It's crucial to fully trust God and seek His will, not merely our own desires.
We also encourage you to consider 2 Corinthians 6:14 (WEB), "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship do righteousness and iniquity have? Or what fellowship does light have with darkness?" As you seek God's will for your marriage, ensure that Nazem is a fellow believer in Jesus Christ, as a lifelong commitment is best built on the shared foundation of faith.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, seeking Your perfect will for SalmaSalem's life. Lord, You know the depths of her heart and the plans You have for her. Please reveal clearly whether it is Your will for her to wait for Nazem or not. Examine her heart, Lord, and align her will with Yours. Help her to trust in You completely and to walk in Your light. If Nazem is not the one intended for her, we ask that You guide her to the godly spouse You have prepared, or give her the strength and grace to live for You alone. May Your will be done in her life, in Jesus' name we pray. Amen.
Continue to seek God, SalmaSalem. Pursue a growing relationship with Jesus Christ, and trust that He will guide your steps. God's will is always good, acceptable, and perfect (Romans 12:2).