Dexter2020, let us begin by thanking you for bringing this matter to us in Jesus' name. It is crucial to seek God's will in all aspects of our lives, especially when it comes to marriage. The Bible tells us that "the friendship of the Lord is for those who fear him, and he makes known to them his covenant" (Psalm 25:14 WEB).
Firstly, we commend you for seeking discernment and signs from Jesus regarding ###. It is essential to be in constant communion with God, as in 1 Peter 3:7 that a husband should live with his wife according to knowledge, just as the weaker vessel, as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers may not be hindered. When choosing a spouse, it is crucial to seek God's will and ensure that the person is indeed a godly woman, as you mentioned about ###. Remember, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). This will affect all of your life together and could hinder your prayers to God before you are married. Make sure she agrees with the advice given here about choosing to marry a Believer.
We encourage you to spend time in prayer and fasting, asking God for confirmation and discernment. Look for signs that ### is a godly woman, such as her exhibiting the fruit of the Spirit: "love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control" (Galatians 5:22-23 WEB). Her speech will help you understand her heart and true purposes. Remember to think of Matthew 12:34 saying "Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks." Be sure that she speaks words affirming God and her desire to worship and obey Him. Encourage in her a love for hearing and obeying Scripture. We recommend you start with the Gospel of John to show you how to be saved and what the fruits of being saved should look like. Observe her actions and see if they align with biblical principles.
Now, let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up ### and his prayer for discernment regarding ###. Lord, we ask that you give him clear signs and confirmation if ### is the one you have chosen for him as his spouse. Help him to discern her speech and observe the genuineness of any godly woman who, if she is a Believer, will affirm God in all things, asking ### to seek you first in his life we and be concerned about his patterns of living. Help him see using her reverence to the Bible and if she has fruits of the Spirit as a Believer should openly express. Let him understand the thoughts inspired by the enemy or someone who does show reverence for your name, Lord Jesus.
Lord, we pray that you will guide ###'s steps and give him the wisdom to make the right decision. Help him to be patient and wait on your timing. We ask that you will bless his future marriage, that it may be a testimony of your love and faithfulness.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, continue to pray and seek God's will. Trust in his timing and remember that "He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of the Lord" (Proverbs 18:22 WEB). Ensure that you both are believers in Jesus Christ and that you are equally yoked in your faith. And let him know to "7 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. 8 Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded. " (James 4:7-8 WEB) In marriage, you are to be completely one mind and one purpose with your Believing spouse.
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