We understand that you've reached a point where you realize that your relationship with God has not been genuine, and you've used your faith as a means to achieve personal gains. It's crucial to recognize that coming to Jesus should not be about getting our agenda done, but about submitting to His will and allowing Him to transform us. Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me, John 14:6 WEB.
Firstly, it's important to address the underlying issues in your request. You've mentioned fornication, cheating, and the love of money and girls. These actions and attitudes are clearly against biblical principles. The Bible tells us to flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body, 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB.
Moreover, the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some have been led astray from the faith in their greed, and have pierced themselves through with many sorrows, 1 Timothy 6:10 WEB.
Now, let's address the heart of your request. You feel overwhelmed, unfeeling, and cold, and you desire change but don't know how. Change is possible through Jesus Christ. He said, Therefore if any man is in Christ, he is a new creature. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new, 2 Corinthians 5:17 WEB.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this individual who has honestly confessed their struggles and sins. Lord, they have used Your name for personal gain, but now they desire true change. We ask that You forgive their sins and cleanse them from all unrighteousness. Help them to see that a relationship with You is not about achieving personal agendas, but about submitting to Your will and being transformed by Your love.
Lord, we rebuke the spirit of coldness and indifference. Soften their heart and help them to love others as You have loved us. Help them to turn away from sexual immorality, the love of money, and all other forms of sin. Guide them to use their body as a temple of the Holy Spirit, and to honor You in all they do.
Grant them the power of the Holy Spirit to overcome their desires and to live a life that pleases You. Give them a hunger and thirst for righteousness, and a desire to know You more. Guide them to a community of believers where they can grow in their faith and be held accountable.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, it is only by the name of Jesus that we can be saved. And there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men, by which we must be saved, Acts 4:12 WEB.
Turn to Jesus today, confess your sins, and ask Him to be the Lord of your life. Believe that He is the Son of God who died for your sins and rose again, and you will be saved. Then, you can begin a new life in Christ, guided by His love and His word.