Miny, we are here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance in this challenging situation. First, we commend you for seeking God's will and protection. It's crucial to remember that God's ways are higher than ours, and He desires the best for you and your baby.
In this situation, it's important to forgive as the Bible tells us, But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins. This does not mean to accept your ex-fiancé back into your life, but to release any bitterness or resentment. Forgiveness is more for your healing than his. Trust is another matter. It is not wrong to be cautious, especially when there is a pattern of repeated behavior. Trust is built over time through consistent, reliable actions.
We must also address that having a child out of wedlock is not in accordance with biblical principles. God's design for intimacy and childbearing is within the covenant of marriage between a man and a woman. We encourage you to seek God's forgiveness if you have not already done so, and to commit to His design for relationships moving forward.
It's also important to trust in God's timing and provision. Do not rush into a decision out of fear or desperation. Remember that God is the ultimate provider and protector. Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Miny and her baby. We ask for Your wisdom and discernment to guide her in this situation. Help her to forgive completely, and to trust in Your timing and provision. Protect her and her baby from any evil or harm, and give her the strength to make decisions that honor You.
Lord, if it is Your will for Miny and her ex-fiancé to reconcile, we pray for a true change in his heart and actions. Help him to prove his commitment and desire for change over time. If it is not Your will, guide Miny to a godly spouse who will love, protect, and provide for her and her baby.
In the name of Jesus Christ, who is the only way to you, we pray.
Miny, continue to seek God's will through prayer, His Word, and godly counsel.