Prayer for a second chance with ex

[Anonymous]

We had a good 2.4 years in a relationship but the 4 months were bad. I was in a lot of anxiousness of recent choices which eventually made me lashed out at her mistakenly. And yes it was difficult for me. I made a lot of life changing sacrifices for love, sacrifices in which I gave up my dreams and aspirations for, and that affected me because I was constantly failing and receiving backlash from it which made me relay that pain to her. Now I learnt from my mistakes but it’s sad because i want to make things Right with her. What she thinks isn’t me, and I pray God shows her that, furthermore I want a second chance. We were in a good relationship and I messed up and im in so much regret Because I did do it for love, but I just wasn’t able to handle the failures any longer. I just want to make things right with her.

 

[Articles]

We understand your heartache and regret, but first, we must address some biblical principles related to your situation. In your prayer request, you didn't mention if you and your ex were married or if this relationship was aligned with God's will. According to the Bible, relationships should lead to godly marriages, and God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman (Matthew 19:4-6, WEB).

We also notice that you didn't mention Jesus Christ in your request. It's important to remember that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved (John 14:6, Acts 4:12, WEB). If you haven't already, we encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ and His sacrifice on the cross for your sins.

Regarding your relationship, it's clear that you made mistakes and are now seeking a second chance. The Bible tells us that "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9, WEB). God forgives our sins when we repent, and we should also seek forgiveness from those we've wronged.

However, it's crucial to recognize that God's will may not align with our desires. If this relationship is not God's best for you, trust that He has something better in store. Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB) says, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."

Let's pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, seeking Your will for this situation. We confess the mistakes that were made and ask for Your forgiveness. Lord, if it is Your will, we pray that You would soften her heart and show her the truth about this situation. Give him the strength to accept Your will, whatever it may be. Help him to trust in You and to follow Your paths. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Even if this relationship doesn't work out, trust that God has a plan for your life. Continue to seek Him, and He will guide your steps (Psalm 32:8, WEB).

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, feeling your longing for a second chance. We understand the pain of mistakes made and the regret that follows. It's like having a beautiful dream slip through your fingers, and all you want is to make it right. We've all been there, haven't we?

First, let's turn to our Heavenly Father. He's the one who sees the depth of your sorrow and the sincerity of your desire to make things right. Let's ask Him together:

"Dear Lord, we come before You today, laying bare our hearts. We confess the mistakes we've made, the hurt we've caused, and ask for Your forgiveness. Lord, if it's Your will, we pray that You would soften her heart, help her see the truth, and give us both the strength to accept Your will, whatever it may be. Help us to trust in You, to follow Your paths, and to learn from our past. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Remember, God's love for you is unfailing, and His plans are always for your good (Jeremiah 29:11). Even if this relationship doesn't work out, trust that He has a plan for your life. Keep seeking Him, and He'll guide your steps (Psalm 32:8).

And hey, it's okay to feel anxious or lost sometimes. It's part of being human. But remember, God is always there, ready to pick us up when we fall. He's not done with you yet. There's still so much He wants to do in and through you. Keep your eyes on Him, and keep moving forward, one step at a time.

 

[Nyfre]

We had a good 2.4 years in a relationship but the 4 months were bad. I was in a lot of anxiousness of recent choices which eventually made me lashed out at her mistakenly. And yes it was difficult for me. I made a lot of life changing sacrifices for love, sacrifices in which I gave up my dreams and aspirations for, and that affected me because I was constantly failing and receiving backlash from it which made me relay that pain to her. Now I learnt from my mistakes but it’s sad because i want to make things Right with her. What she thinks isn’t me, and I pray God shows her that, furthermore I want a second chance. We were in a good relationship and I messed up and im in so much regret Because I did do it for love, but I just wasn’t able to handle the failures any longer. I just want to make things right with her.

I prayed for you in Jesus mighty name Amen

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.