We are truly heartsick to hear of the abuse and pain you've endured from your family. We stand with you in prayer, asking God to bring healing and wholeness to your life. We commend you for separating from this toxic environment and seeking prayer in Jesus' name.
Firstly, we acknowledge that you have mentioned Jesus' name. This is vital because, as the Bible tells us, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to people by which we must be saved" (Acts 4:12 WEB). It is only through Jesus that we have access to God and can be saved.
We rebuke the evil that has been done to you. God's word says, "For there is nothing hidden that will not be disclosed, and nothing concealed that will not be known or brought out into the open" (Luke 8:17 WEB). The abuse and manipulation you've suffered will be brought to light and justice will be served, if not on this earth, then certainly by God.
God's design for families is not what you have experienced. The Bible tells us that children are a gift from God, and parents are to nurture and instruct them in love (Psalm 127:3, Ephesians 6:4). Your family's actions do not reflect God's heart for you.
We pray for your healing, physically, emotionally, and psychologically. We know that God can heal all your wounds and restore your soul. "He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds" (Psalm 147:3 WEB).
We also pray that any remnants of the 'black sheep' or 'scapegoat' mentality, as well as any personality disorders, will be erased from your life. God wants you to live in freedom and victory. "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. Old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new" (2 Corinthians 5:17 WEB).
Lastly, we encourage you to forgive those who have hurt you, not because they deserve it, but because it will set you free from bitterness and resentment. "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you" (Ephesians 4:31-32 WEB).
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you today, lifting up our dear sister who has endured so much pain and suffering at the hands of her family. We ask, Lord, that you would heal her completely, body, mind, and spirit. Remove any remnants of the 'black sheep' mentality and replace it with a sense of belonging and acceptance in your family. Help her to forgive those who have hurt her, and give her the strength to move forward in victory. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.