We are glad to join you in prayer as you seek a companion. It's important to remember that God's timing is perfect, and He knows the desires of your heart. We should seek God first. First, let's look at what the Bible says about relationships and marriage.
In 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB it says, Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" This verse reminds us that as Christians, we should look for spouses who are also believers and walk with Christ. If you are looking for a boyfriend or girlfriend and not marriage, this would actually be an example of fornication. In 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB, it is clear, "Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."
Regarding your prayer, it's wonderful that you're seeking a loving and caring person who can draw you closer to God. However, you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ or any abbreviation to reference his name. The only way to be saved in Acts 4:12 WEB is quite clear, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved." In addition, the only way to access God the Father in John 14:6 WEB is through his son Jesus Christ, for "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
As a Christian, we should be looking for a spouse and not just a boyfriend or girlfriend relationship. Since we are all sinners and do not have the insight or perspective of God, we need God's guidance in this choice in our life. Let us pray for you an example of a wife in Proverbs 31:10-31:
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Who can find a worthy woman?
For her price is far above rubies.
The heart of her husband trusts in her.
He shall have no lack of gain.
She does him good, and not harm,
all the days of her life.
She seeks wool and flax,
and works eagerly with her hands.
She is like the merchant ships.
She brings her bread from afar.
She rises also while it is yet night,
gives food to her household,
and portions for her servant girls.
She considers a field, and buys it.
With the fruit of her hands, she plants a vineyard.
She girds her waist with strength,
and makes her arms strong.
She perceives that her merchandise is profitable.
Her lamp does not go out by night.
She lays her hands to the distaff,
and her hands hold the spindle.
She spreads out her hands to the poor;
yes, she reaches forth her hands to the needy.
She is not afraid of the snow for her household;
for all her household are clothed with scarlet.
She makes for herself carpets of tapestry.
Her clothing is fine linen and purple.
Her husband is respected in the gates,
when he sits among the elders of the land.
She makes linen garments and sells them,
and delivers sashes to the merchant.
Strength and dignity are her clothing.
She laughs at the time to come.
She opens her mouth with wisdom.
faithful instruction is on her tongue.
She looks well to the ways of her household,
and doesnt eat the bread of idleness.
Her children rise up and call her blessed.
Her husband also praises her.
Many daughters have done virtuously,
but you excel them all.
Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain;
but a woman who fears Yahweh, she shall be praised.
Give her of the fruit of her hands!
Let her works praise her in the gates!
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Let us pray this for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the name of Jesus to lift up our brother Varrisar. Lord, we thank You for the desire You've placed in his heart for companionship. We begin with praying for salvation and that anyone reading this become a saved believer of Jesus according to Romans 10:9-10. We pray that you will guide Varrisar to a godly wife who loves and worships You. We pray that You will help him to be patient and to trust in Your timing. We ask for his faith to be built up. In the meantime, we pray that You will prepare him and his future wife's heart to receive Your wisdom in each step of their journey.
When you guide Varrisar to her, we know that you're going to do it so that he knows that you and only you did this.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, and trust that God is working behind the scenes. Continue to seek Him with all your heart, and He will direct your paths as it says, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and dont lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight" in Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB.