Prayer for a broken relationship

[Trohirazi]

I just want truth to reign and any scheme of the enemy to be broken. A fresh start if it God’s will and a restoration of what was lost ten fold. My ex and I had a difficult year last year. We had been to premarital counseling, he bought a ring, and we were about to get married and the enemy came for the mind. We both were disobedient and highly convicted. I want to be obedient and be aligned with God’s will. I’ve been focused on restoring my union with the Lord and I believe He has to, but I also seen a pull to some past behavior. I heard the Lord say He was pouring out new wine for our relationship, but my ex was holding on to an old wine skin. He has a tendency to be critical of others but not hold himself to the same standard. He isn’t comfortable with emotions and vulnerability. I feel as if the enemy won, but I know I serve a God who gets the final say. So I’m asking for prayer that if it truly is the enemy at work, all lies be made into truths and a relational Saul to Paul happens. In our strength it’s over, but what God puts together let no man or demon in hell separate. We need breakthrough and for my ex to be anointed as a strong spiritual leader of our future home. I’m trying to walk by faith and not by sight. Two oxen plow a field and every good marriage takes work; we on the other side in a less stressful season, I’m asking God willing to put my family back together.

 

[Articles]

We understand your heart's cry for truth, restoration, and God's will to be done in your relationship. Let us first align our hearts with God's Word, "For all have sinned, and fall short of the glory of God" (Romans 3:23 WEB), and, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9 WEB).

It's clear that both you and your ex have had struggles and conviction of sin. This is good, as it leads to repentance. Remember, "God is light, and in him is no darkness at all" (1 John 1:5 WEB). He desires truth and honesty in our relationships.

However, we must rebuke any tendency to be critical of others while not holding ourselves accountable. Jesus taught, "Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but don’t consider the beam that is in your own eye?" (Matthew 7:3 WEB). We must first examine ourselves before criticizing others.

Regarding your ex's discomfort with emotions and vulnerability, encourage him with these words, "There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear" (1 John 4:18 WEB). True love requires vulnerability and openness.

Let us pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, claiming your promises for ### and their ex. Lord, you said that if any man is in Christ, he is a new creation (2 Corinthians 5:17). We ask that you pour out new wine into their relationship, and give them both new hearts, aligned with your will.

We rebuke any schemes of the enemy in their relationship. May every lie be exposed, and every truth be revealed. Just as you transformed Saul into Paul, we ask for a relational transformation for ### and their ex.

Anoint them both to be strong spiritual leaders in their future home. Give them the strength and wisdom to walk by faith, not by sight (2 Corinthians 5:7). We claim your promise that what you have put together, let no man or demon in hell separate (Matthew 19:6).

In Jesus' mighty name, we pray. Amen."

Lastly, you mentioned wanting truth to reign. Always remember that Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life (John 14:6). Embrace his truth, and let it guide your relationship. Keep him at the center, and he will direct your paths.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, standing in faith for your relationship. It's encouraging to see your heart's desire for truth and restoration. Let's hold onto these promises: "The truth will set you free" (John 8:32) and "God is love" (1 John 4:8). We believe in a God who specializes in turning broken things into beautiful masterpieces.

We've been praying for you, asking God to reveal any hidden lies and replace them with His truth. We're claiming His promise to transform your relationship, just as He transformed the apostle Paul. We're believing for a fresh start, filled with new wine - His love, joy, and peace.

Let's keep our hearts open to His leading, even in the face of uncertainty. We're walking this out by faith, not by sight. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). He's got this. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Jere]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Felic]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.

 

[Trohirazi]

Thank you all for praying the update is this: there’s seems to be a softness about him toward me lately when I’ve ran into him. He’s also been humming some worship music and I’ve caught him praying a few times on the treadmill at the gym. That’s the man I know. A man after God’s heart no matter where he is. He did message me the other day out of the blue about something he received in the mail in my name. I haven’t got mail there in almost a year I have my own PO box now because the place I rent won’t let me use the address for my mail. It was weird because I lost my job this week and the day I got my new job was the day he messaged me. I had been praying for contact so I don’t know what it means. Just continuing to pray and live my life being led by the Lord. If it’s supposed to be it will be. I’m praying he is filled with the Spirit and given boldness and vision to approach me with. I love him but God loves him more and he is His so we see what happens.