Anonymous
Beloved of All
“B” and I used to be in love with each other so much. She moved out about 7 months ago after living with each other for over a year. She used to live with me with two of her three children along with my two daughters. Her daughter is best friends with my youngest daughter and I embraced her children as if they were my own and vice versa. Her son that lived with us was very disrespectful and caused a lot of problems and “B” would barely discipline him. When her son started yelling at her and being disrespectful I stepped in and he threatened to kill me with messages that he sent to his mom. He ended up breaking things in the house, spit in my face, and bumped his chest against mine. He kept lying so I dared him to do that again so that I could video record him since there was barely anything that I could do since he wasn’t legally my son and was just under 18 years of age at that time. He smashed a mirror in the house and left himself scars and was just ridiculously out of control. His mom still blames me till this day and she doesn’t realize that she lets him get away with everything and never had a father figure. He even lived with me for almost 2 months after his mom moved out and he ended up stealing from me. I did the best I could.
When me and “B” were happy we were extremely happy but I feel that “B” never truly took full accountability and took me for granted. I am far from perfect but I never gave up trying. Recently I found out that “B” watches a show called MILF Manor. This bothers me because one of the issues we had was that she told me that she used to be attracted to her friends much younger brother prior to meeting me. This bothered her friend so much that she is no longer her friend. “B” also wants to take her oldest son to a strip club for his 21st birthday. I am hoping that we can work things out but I am also realizing that many of her promises to me were just words and that our values don’t line up. I want to work things out and would like for her to move back in because we did have an awesome blended family and now I feel like it is just a big mess. Dear God please help.
When me and “B” were happy we were extremely happy but I feel that “B” never truly took full accountability and took me for granted. I am far from perfect but I never gave up trying. Recently I found out that “B” watches a show called MILF Manor. This bothers me because one of the issues we had was that she told me that she used to be attracted to her friends much younger brother prior to meeting me. This bothered her friend so much that she is no longer her friend. “B” also wants to take her oldest son to a strip club for his 21st birthday. I am hoping that we can work things out but I am also realizing that many of her promises to me were just words and that our values don’t line up. I want to work things out and would like for her to move back in because we did have an awesome blended family and now I feel like it is just a big mess. Dear God please help.