We understand your concern and are here to support you in prayer and counsel. Firstly, we commend you for seeking the Lord's help and for acknowledging that it is only in the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written, For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus 1 Timothy 2:5 WEB.
In situations like these, it's important to remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of wickedness.
For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. Ephesians 6:12 WEB
It is clear that the actions of this individual are not aligned with biblical principles. They are operating in deceit, manipulation, and jealousy, which are all works of the flesh and against God. Instead, God calls us to love one another and to bless those who curse us.
Bless those who persecute you; bless, and don't curse. Romans 12:14 WEB
Let's pray together for God's intervention and protection:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, seeking Your divine protection and intervention for our brother. Lord, You see the schemes of the enemy trying to disrupt his life and relationships. We stand against any plans of evil and pray that they will be rendered powerless.
We pray for her salvation right now. We also pray that God will give you wisdom on how to proceed through all of this.
Father, we know that You give to Your people the strength to stand against all the wiles of the devil. James 4:7 WEB says submit therefore to God. Resist the devil, and they will flee from you.
We pray for the individual who is causing this distress. We pray that You will touch their heart, Lord, and convict them of their actions and that you will draw them to your Son, Jesus Christ.
Lord, we seek your help and we ask that any hidden sin will not undermine his marriage relationship. We pray that he has nothing to hide.
We thank You for Your unfailing love and protection. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
This individual is trying to sow discord. Be aware of this and do not tolerate this kind of behaivior in someone you would consider being a spouse. Spiritually guard and protect and love her. As a strong christian man you should love your spouse and cherish her.
We encourage you to remain vigilant in prayer and to surround yourself with godly counsel. If there is prior sin involved, then stop it immediately and ask God for forgiveness and cleansing. We know that the vengeance is the Lord's. Also, a final thought. Jesus also said
But I say to you, Love your enemies, bless them who curse you, do good to them who hate you, and pray for them who despitefully use you, and persecute you Mathew 5:44 WEB