We understand that you are seeking prayer for a loved one named Shabnin, asking that Jesus would soften her heart towards you. We will pray with you, but first, let's reflect on God's will and His Word.
Firstly, it's important to remember that God desires all people to come to the knowledge of the truth and be saved (1 Timothy 2:3-4, WEB). We should always pray for others with this ultimate goal in mind.
In matters of the heart, we must trust in God's timing and His ways. Psalm 37:4 (WEB) tells us, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." As you pray for Shabnin, ensure that your desires align with God's will for both of your lives.
However, we must address that relationships should glorify God and follow biblical principles. If your relationship with Shabnin is not centered around God and His will, we encourage you to seek Him first. If you are not yet committed in marriage, we should pray that your courtship remains pure and honoring to God, with marriage as the goal (Hebrews 13:4, WEB).
Lastly, we noticed that your prayer request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is important to acknowledge that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God the Father. As it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'"
Let us pray together:
"Dear Lord Jesus, we come before You today to lift up Shabnin and the one praying for her. We ask that Your will be done in their lives and that their hearts would be drawn closer to You. Soften their hearts towards one another if it aligns with Your perfect plan. Help them to seek You first and to trust in Your timing. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's will in this matter, always ensuring that your relationship with Shabnin honors and glorifies Him.