Let us first address the core of your request. You've expressed a desire for a godly relationship with a woman you're currently in the talking stage with. We will pray for God's will to be done in both of your lives, and that you do this in a godly way and not fornication. You are leaving your financial situation to God, and others have suggested that you need to plan. In all things, we need to be responsible for our efforts as well as praying for God's blessing. We will pray for your possible future spouse. Please let us know her name so we can pray for her explicitly. We will also pray for blessings over her studies and your potential future together, including future expenses and childbirth.
However, we want to remind you that God's will is paramount. It is wonderful that you are thinking about growing together in a godly relationship. It is good that we have these desires to honor God with our relationships. It is good to consider marriage. Psalm 37:4 WEB says, Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. We will pray that you both desire godly things together.
We should plan even as we trust in God. We must follow godly principles even as we pray for blessings. We must remember the words of 2 Thessalonians 3:10-12 WEB, For even when we were with you, we commanded you this: If anyone is not willing to work, neither let him eat. For we hear of some who walk among you in rebellion, who do not work at all, but are busybodies. Now those who are that way, we command and exhort in the Lord Jesus Christ, that with quietness they work and eat their own bread.
Moreover, it's crucial to remember that sexual intimacy is a gift from God designed for marriage between a man and a woman. 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB says, Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.
Let us pray together.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up your servant and the woman he has in mind. We pray that Your will be done in their lives and that You guide them in Your wisdom. We thank you that he is taking the initiative to pray and align his heart to yours. We pray that you would give him the ability to delay gratification until marriage. Help them to communicate effectively and grow together in a relationship that honors You. Give them the wisdom to plan and prepare for the future, trusting in You every step of the way. Bless her studies and guide her path. Provide for all their needs according to Your riches in glory. If it is in your will, please help them to become one flesh and raise a family that worships You.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, it is only by the name of Jesus that we can come before God and be saved.
Acts 4:12 WEB says, There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved.
