Pray that Jesus will give me a wife

[Dexter2020]

Pray that Jesus will give me a wife and bless our marriage and also for healing from the past hurt inflicted by the unequally yoked girlfriend and also prepare me for the duties of a father and a husband. It is also worrying that my ex church taught that one must abstain from marriage due to lack of money and it is God wisdom and chose Celibacy and make people distrust in Jesus although he had shown me a vision of marriage in that church and said that I was not loved when I was young and hence go to the St. Andrews Cathedral to find love. It makes me hurt and terrible to suppress my feeling towards girls and not be merry which I want to be married but these church just looked down upon me and wanted me to suppress my feeling and let my passion burn in vain and I read the bible all that they said with contrary to the bible and even refused to pray for me to look for a wife so I changed to homosexual at that point of time as I was dumped also by my ex-girlfriend due to this but Jesus turned me back to like girls and to pursue. The church weather be it an St. Andrews Cathedral (Anglican church) or the Coronation Baptist Church persuade its member to be single as the ONLY way to serve God, and one is not to get married as it will distract you from God but let Christian deceived so they turned to homosexuals to find love and be single but engage in sexual immorality to satisfy their sexual lust. Although my know that it wrong due to the false doctrine which they taught and unwanted singleness .

 

[Articles]

We understand your concerns and will pray with you regarding your request. Let's first address the issues and then lift up a prayer and encouragement based on scripture.

Firstly, it is important to note that marriage is a blessed institution ordained by God. It is not something to be avoided but rather embraced as God sees right to bring in one's life. It is God who set an example of holding the marriage covenant between Himself and backsliding Israel in the old testament, Hosea. the Apostle Paul encouraged both those who marry and those who remain single. He said “But I say to the unmarried and to widows that it is good for them if they remain even as I am. But if they don’t have self-control, let them marry. For it’s better to marry than to burn.”

It is clear that the doctrines you encountered in your former churches contradict biblical principles. The Bible encourages us to marry and bear children and surround ourselves with godly descendants. The Bible does not teach that marriage is not possible or advisable due to lack of money. These teachings may be designed to harm people who are called into the ministry or to upset people's struggles with sexual immorality and inclinations. The bible says “Therefore will I return, and take away my corn in the time thereof, and my wine in the season thereof, and will recover my wool and my flax given to cover her nakedness. And now will I discover her lewdness in the sight of her lovers, and none shall deliver her out of mine hand.” Don't be distressed by false teachings. God honors marriage, and so should we. It is a lifetime commitment YHWH (LORD God) established between one man, who serves as husband, and one woman, who serves as wife in His name. God uses this bond to create families. Marriage is to be a monogamous relationship between two people of the opposite sex. Leviticus 18; 20, and Romans 1 declares homosexuality as an abomination.

Regarding interacting with others in the manner of boyfriend and girlfriend, it should be treated as a period of courtship for possible future marriage. Sex outside of marriage, whether it be fornication or adultery is a sin and should be avoided, It would be better to control sexual urges until marriage. Concerning praying in Jesus' name, God we may approach God is Jesus' name since he is the one mediator between God and men as reinforced in 1 Timothy 2:5-6. God forgive us only in Jesus' name.

There were some errors in your convictions, church teachings, and some contradictions expressed in your prayer request. The reality is that some sects today teach some people are not called to marry as God wants them single, However God made us sexual beings and expects us to express our intimacies within a monogamous marriage. There is evidence disproving the notion of remaining single and suppressing sexual feelings, as you discovered. Such teachings can and does result in sexually deviant behavior and sexual immorality. These teachings are against God's word and not of God. The scripture says in 1 Timothy 4:1 4“Now the Spirit says expressly that in later times some shall fall away from the faith, paying attention to seducing spirits and doctrines of demons. Renouncing these false doctrines from those churches should help you get focused on God’s will and receive righteous desires.

In response to your request, let us pray:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in our request lifting up my brother Dexter2020 in Jesus' name. Lord, we ask that You forgive him of his sins and remove his sinful desires and replace them with righteous ones. Align him with Your will fully, prepare him for marriage as he requests, with godly descendants, and with such a wife to help him attain Your will. Lord God, give him clarity of Your will when dealing with the course of his life and family. We pray against the pain of the past hurt inflicted by the unequally yoked girlfriend which could lead to other temptations and sexual immorality and give healing. We pray Lord that you make him whole ready for a godly wife, prepare him for his role as a future godly husband and father. carried out within Your statutes and principles revealed in Your Word. Make Him steadfast and zealous for You. Turn his stray thoughts and feelings away from the temptations of the flesh and draw him closer to You. Let His thought of you be greater than his fears and temptations. Enlighten him on your processes in lives of children which are a gift, discouraging them for any reason. Lead Him to those whom God calls to help Him, a godly wife rather than a set of conformity to traditions refusing to pray according to Your Word and Will. Father be His comfort and guide through this life and into the next. Help Him to resist impure and immoral thoughts. In Jesus' name IJN. Amen

Trust in the Lord, and never give up hope. God has a plan and a purpose for you. hold tight to Jesus' hand and He will lead you through. You are God's child and He is holding His hand out to you to guide you on His path. Be constant and persistant in your relationship with God.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear Dexter2020,

We're here with you, brother. We understand the journey you've been on, the hurts you've faced, and the desires of your heart. Let's lift this up together, shall we?

First, we want to assure you that God's heart is for marriage. It's a beautiful, God-ordained institution. In Genesis, we see God saying, "It is not good for man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him" (Genesis 2:18). God created Eve, the first woman, to be Adam's companion, his helper, his wife. This was God's design from the beginning.

We also want to encourage you that God sees your past hurts. He sees the pain caused by the unequally yoked girlfriend, and He sees the false teachings that have confused and hurt you. But remember, God is a God of healing and restoration. He can take those broken pieces and make something beautiful out of them. As it says in Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds."

We pray that God would heal you, Dexter2020. We pray that He would remove the pain and the hurt, and replace it with His love and His peace. We pray that He would prepare you for the role of a godly husband and father, and that He would bring a godly wife across your path. We pray that you would have clarity in God's will for your life, and the strength to follow it.

We also want to encourage you to trust in God's timing. As it says in Psalm 37:3-4, "Trust in the Lord and do good; dwell in the land and cultivate faithfulness. Delight yourself in the Lord; and He will give you the desires of your heart." Trust that God has a plan, and that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).

Keep seeking God, keep trusting Him, and keep holding on to His promises. He is faithful, and He will not let you down.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[marls]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[Haughtton]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray with you concerning your future wife, your upcoming marriage, and your healing from past hurt. We have been fervently standing in agreement with you in prayer for God's will.

Our hope is you will not be discouraged if the bible did not come through for you! Please re-post and we will a fortiori pray and agree Jesus is planning to give you a wife will all grace and bless your marriage. Only trust Him and His understanding of the disturbing mental images and error caused by harsh condemnation of righteous desires held by church leaders.