Proverbs 18:21 (ASV)
21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue; And they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.
I see your words and know what king of future you are gong to have. You are planting words of death into your life, so you will harvest a life of death. If a farmer plants seeds of weeds, he will harvest a crop of weeds, even if he wants wheat.
Change your words that you speak over yourself to change your future. The demonic realm wants you to be in agreement with them which are the words you are now speaking in your prayer request. Learn what God says about you and speak those words.
The best way to change your circumstances around you and to have the people around you do some changing is found in this verse of the Bible, the Word.
Proverbs 4:20-23 (ASV)
20 My son, attend to my words; Incline thine ear unto my sayings.
21 Let them not depart from thine eyes; Keep them in the midst of thy heart.
22 For they are life unto those that find them, And health to all their flesh.
23 Keep thy heart with all diligence; For out of it are the issues of life.
You, your flesh, your family will all be affected if "you" will make Jesus and God your main focus in life. Read the Word daily, especially the New Testament. Read it, memorize passages, speak passages aloud, mediate on the Words you have read. Sing praise songs, worship the Lord, And love others around you. Love them like Jesus does and says to do. When you do these things the people around you, your family, shall change.
In the name of Jesus, I bless you with the life of God.