Anonymous
Beloved of All
Pray that my boyfriend has respect for our relationship that he doesn’t entertain his ex-wife. They cross boundaries when conversing and I pray they both feel inside that what they are doing is wrong and humble themselves with humility to respect each other and me as well to not cross boundaries. They are ransoming text each other I notice when they are bored about random things that they do not need to be discussing with each other. Also, instead of reaching out to their 17-year-old or 21-year-old themselves, they will text each other about them but the questions and statements they talk about should be addressed to the young adults from themselves. They don’t need to converse with each other about the things they do converse about and in some of the messages they will talk about their own life and also his ex-wife will tell him how he needs to be happy and I just wish he would defend our relationship towards her. If she ever mentions me or his relationship with me, I pray he takes up for us and lets her know she can’t be talking like this with him about me and him. His personal life is not her business anymore and he appreciates her concern but if he was not happy with me then he wouldn’t be with me. He agrees with her when she tells him he needs to be with someone he can care about and be happy with. I’m not sure why he just won’t tell her that he does care about me and he is happy with me. Instead, he says “I know.” This has been going on for a year. She used to send pictures of them two together and he wouldn’t stop her but I don’t think she has sent recently. He swears he would not get back with her and he really loves me. But the conversations and flirting they do makes me feel like he hasn’t let go of some things with her. I pray he understands he has another heart in his hands. The things they do me and my child’s dad have not done. We have so much respect for each other and the person we choose to be with. I pray he wouldn’t entertain her if and when she contacts him and he keeps it short and brief and if it’s nothing major about their older kids then they shouldn’t be talking. Also, I pray she lets him go and be happy with me. If she keeps doing what she does it’s like there still is a string being held onto. I pray she understands he has a girlfriend, what she is doing I pray she sees is wrong. She has been seeing a married man for years and I pray she finds someone that’s not married she can be happy with. And she can move on. I pray her heart is soft enough to know and feel the wrongness in trying to entertain her ex-husband when he is in another relationship. He isn’t her go-to person anymore. She doesn’t need to confide in him for things. I pray she lets go of feeling the need to each out to him. I pray she really finds her own happiness and she stops crossing over her boundaries with her ex-husband. He tells me he loves me and only wants me and I am scared that if we ever get married, I don’t want to have to deal with another woman constantly reaching out to him as if they were still married. And the group messages she is in with him and his kids, it’s stuff he really does not need to be in group text for. The kids can text separately. I pray his kids that are young adults see that this group text needs to be stopped and they can text their parents separately. I pray they understand their parents are and have been separated for 7 years, they don’t need to be in any group text together. They have separate lives and they don’t need to be apart of each other’s anymore. If this is what my boyfriend wants to still be a part of his ex-wife's life then pray that he does the right thing to me so I can find someone who would respect our relationship enough not to feel the need to entertain their ex or any other woman. Thank you.