We understand your concerns, Dexter2020, and we're here to guide and pray with you. Firstly, let's address the core of your request. You're feeling uncertain about someone's authenticity on a Christian dating app, and you're considering leaving the platform due to disappointments and potential deceit.
In matters of relationships, it's crucial to proceed with wisdom and caution. The Bible tells us, "Be wise as serpents and harmless as doves" (Matthew 10:16 WEB). It's important to discern the truth and be cautious about who you connect with, ensuring they share your faith and values.
However, we must also address your consideration of leaving Christian dating altogether due to these experiences. Remember, God's timing is perfect, and He has a plan for each of us. As it is written, "Don't be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God" (Romans 12:2 WEB).
Now, let's pray together:
*Heavenly Father, we come before You today in the name of Jesus Christ, asking for Your guidance and wisdom for Dexter2020. Lord, You know the struggles and uncertainties he's facing on this dating platform. We ask that You reveal any deceit and protect him from harm. Give him discernment to navigate these situations and peace to trust in Your timing. Lord, if Tee Hee is the one You have intended for him, we pray that she would respond and that their connection would be evident. If not, we ask that You comfort Dexter2020 and guide him to the woman You have prepared for him, or give him the patience to wait on Your perfect timing. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*
Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep seeking God's will in your life and relationships. If this platform isn't working out, perhaps God is leading you to meet someone in a different way. Trust in His plan, and remember that He wants the best for you. "For I know the plans I have for you,β declares the LORD, βplans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future" (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB).
We also noticed that your request doesn't mention the name of Jesus Christ. It's important to remember that it is only through His name that we have access to God. As the Bible says, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB). If you haven't already, we encourage you to put your trust in Jesus Christ and His saving grace.