Dexter2020, we understand your desire for companionship and marriage, and we appreciate your honesty. Firstly, we want to emphasize the importance of seeking God's will in all things, including your marital status. It's crucial to remember that God has a plan and a purpose for each of us, and His timing is perfect.
We want to address a few things in your request. Firstly, you mentioned that you cannot control your sexual drive. We want to remind you of what the Bible says about sexual immorality. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 WEB says, Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit which is in you, which you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God's. It's important to flee from sexual immorality and seek purity in all areas of your life. God honors those who honor Him.
Secondly, we want to encourage you to continue waiting on God. Psalm 37:4 WEB says, Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. As you delight in God, He will place the right desires in your heart and fulfill them in His perfect timing. Remember, God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts. Isaiah 55:8-9 WEB says, For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, says Yahweh. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.
Now, let's pray together. Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we lift up ### to You. We pray that You will reveal Your will to him regarding marriage. If ### is the one You have chosen for him, make it clear and remove all obstacles. If she is not, guide him to the woman You have prepared for him.
Help him to stay pure and flee from sexual immorality and to keep sex where it belongs in marriage. Give him the strength to control his desires and live a life pleasing to You. We pray that You will fulfill Your purpose in his life and give him a peace and hope that is only found in you. Remove any fear of being single or living in regret, and help him to trust in Your timing. Thank You, Father, for hearing our prayer. We ask this all now in Jesus name with thanksgiving and praise.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue seeking God with all your heart. As you draw near to Him, He will draw near to you. James 4:8 WEB says, Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded.