We understand that you're going through a challenging situation with your daughter and we commend you for seeking prayer and support. Let's first turn to the scriptures for guidance. The Bible tells us, Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you. Therefore be imitators of God as dear children. (Ephesians 4:31-5:1, WEB).
It's clear that you've acknowledged past mistakes and harbor love for your daughter. It's important to remember that forgiveness is a fundamental aspect of our faith. As Jesus taught us, For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don't forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses. (Matthew 6:14-15, WEB).
Now, let us pray together for you.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up this mother who seeks reconciliation and forgiveness from her daughter. Lord, you know the depths of her heart and the love she has for her child. We pray that you soften her daughter's heart, that she may find it in herself to forgive and understand the past.
Lord, we also ask that you guide the therapists and all those who influence this situation. Give them wisdom and discernment, that their words and actions may bring healing and not strife. Help everyone "But above all things, my brothers, don't swear, neither by the heaven, nor by the earth, nor by any other oath; but let your 'Yes' be 'Yes' and your 'No' be 'No,' so that you don't fall into hypocrisy." (James 5:12). Help them always stay above reproach in how they treat everybody involved in their therapy. Silence any harsh words that might further damage and not bring salvation to this situation.
Father, surround both mother and daughter with godly counsel and support. Provide the mother with the understanding she gives to her grandchildren.
May others be kind and respectful, not neglecting to show hospitality whether in their words or actions for some have entertained angels unaware. Help them stop interfering with the relationship of mother and daughter by speaking negatively or causing intentional harm. We pray that outsiders like the therapists remain assuring for both.
We ask this in the precious name of Jesus Christ, for the glory of God. It is only in Jesus that this relationship is made righteous.
And this is his commandment, that we should believe in the name of his Son, Jesus Christ, and love one another, even as he commanded us. (1 John 3:23, WEB). Let everyone involved in this conflict pursue peace and holiness without which no one will see the Lord.
We also pray for the healing of past traumas and hurts, that they may no longer have a hold on her life. Cast out the spirit of anger that still may be in her from her past life. Help her become new in the forgiveness of Jesus Christ.
In Jesus Christ's name we pray. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to continue demonstrating love and patience towards your daughter. It may take time, continue praying for your daughter.
Constantly speak blessings over her. I tell you that on the day of judgment, people will have to account for every careless word they speak. For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned." (Matthew 12:36-37). This advice might seem harsh and a hard saying but we trust it will help everyone involved in this situation.
In closing remember "The LORD is merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and abundant in loving kindness." (Psalm 103:8, WEB).