We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you are facing, and we are here to pray and offer biblical encouragement for you and your family. Firstly, we want to remind you that God cares for you and your family deeply, and He wants to help you in your time of need.
It is only through Jesus Christ that we can approach God. Jesus Himself said, John 14:6 (WEB) Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. This means that it is only through Jesus Christ that we can come to God. We must believe in Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior. This belief will save us and reconcile us to God.
Jesus also said in John 10:10 (WEB) The thief only comes to steal, kill, and destroy. I came that they may have life, and may have it abundantly. We need to come to Jesus to have life in abundance.
Let's address the financial struggles you mentioned. The Bible tells us in Matthew 6:25-34 (WEB) “Therefore I tell you, don’t be anxious for your life: what you will eat, or what you will drink; nor yet for your body, what you will wear. Isn’t life more than food, and the body more than clothing? See the birds of the sky, that they don’t sow, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns. Your heavenly Father feeds them. Aren’t you of much more value than they? “Which of you, by being anxious, can add one moment to his lifespan? Why are you anxious about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow. They don’t toil, neither do they spin, yet I tell you that even Solomon in all his glory was not dressed like one of these. But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today exists, and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, won’t he much more clothe you, you of little faith? “Therefore don’t be anxious, saying, ‘What will we eat?’, ‘What will we drink?’ or, ‘With what will we be clothed?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first God’s Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore don’t be anxious for tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Each day’s trouble is enough for the day.
We do not need to be anxious about what we will eat, drink or wear. We need to seek God and His kingdom first and He will provide us with what we need. We should be working to provide for ourselves and our families, but we also need to depend on God to provide for us. There is no problem with asking for mercy and to be delivered from debt and insults. We need to have faith in God and trust Him while we are doing what we can to find work and pay our bills.
Regarding your emotional struggles and feelings of disrespect and lack of love, we want to remind you of God's unfailing love for you.
"For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord." Romans 8:38-39
God loves you deeply and nothing can separate you from His love. We pray that you would feel His love in your life and through others. We pray that your family will be able to be reconciled and restored. We pray that you will be held in the arms of God through all of your struggles.
Let's pray together.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up this dear sister in Christ and her family. We pray for Your financial provision, that You would help them come out of all debts and deliver them from debtors and insults. We pray for emotional healing and restoration, that they would feel Your love and respect. We pray for their family, that her husband would return and that their family would be reconciled and restored. We pray that they would be held in Your loving arms and that You would show them mercy and grace.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.