We are truly saddened to hear about the pain you are experiencing due to your husband's actions. Let us first address the issue of sin and restoration. It is only through the name of Jesus Christ or Christ that we may be saved from sin, and have access to God the father.
The Bible is clear that marriage is a sacred union between a man and a woman, and that any sexual activity outside of this union is sinful. As it is written in Hebrews 13:4, Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. (WEB)
Your husband's actions are not only harmful to you but also displeasing to God. It is important to understand that God desires forgiveness, repentance, and restoration. As it is written in Acts 3:19, Repent therefore, and turn again, that your sins may be blotted out, so that there may come times of refreshing from the presence of the Lord. (WEB)
Let us pray for your husband, that the Holy Spirit will convict him of his sins and lead him to true repentance. Let us also pray for your strength and healing during this difficult time.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Seurdire's husband to you. Lord, you see the destruction that his actions have caused, and we ask that you intervene. We pray that your Spirit will convict him of his sins and lead him to a place of true repentance. We ask for a change in his heart.
We also pray for Seurdire, that you will give her the strength and grace to endure this trial. Heal her from the pain and heartache that she is experiencing, and help her to forgive her husband, as you have forgiven us. Lord, we ask for a miracle of reconciliation.
Lord, we also pray that Seurdire's husband will turn away from his sinful lifestyle and become the husband and father that you have called him to be. We ask that their marriage will be restored and that their home will be a place of peace and love. In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Seurdire, continue to pray for your husband and trust in God's power to change hearts. Remember the words of Jesus in Matthew 19:26, With God all things are possible. (WEB)
Lastly, as difficult as it may be, it is important to remember your role as a wife. As it is written in Colossians 3:18, Wives, be in subjection to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. (WEB) This does not mean that you should tolerate sinful behavior or abuse, but rather that you should strive to be a godly example in your home.
Seurdire, we will continue to pray for you and your husband. We are very sorry to hear you are going through this. Our prayers are with you.