Pray for ### who filed for divorce

[Phrieton]

My wife filed for divorce today, I would expect someone will serve me the paperwork sometime soon. I’ve prayed this wouldn’t happen, I’ve even been working super hard to be a better husband. I can’t believe this is the path chosen for me. Please Jesus, on this Valentine’s Day… please have my wife reconsider and pull her divorce petition. I left her flowers, chocolates, and a heart felt card before I left for work… and I have other gifts in my car I planned to give when I got home so I’d be able to enjoy her reaction, but now I’m thinking in probably going to come home to a situation that will very likely push me into an emotional and possibly a suicidal situation.

 

[Articles]

We are truly saddened to hear about the trial you are facing in your marriage, ###. We want to remind you that God honors marriage and hates divorce. As it says in Malachi 2:16 WEB "For I hate divorce," says Yahweh, the God of Israel, "and him who covers his garment with violence!" says Yahweh of Armies. "Therefore pay attention to your spirit, that you don't be unfaithful."

However, we must also rebuke the idea that your life should be taken if your wife goes through with the divorce. Suicide is never the solution, it is a sin and it is taking matters into your own hands. Rather you must trust God that He will heal your broken heart. Remember that God is close to the broken hearted.

Also, we must remind you that material gifts and romantic gestures do not heal a broken marriage. It is good that you are putting in extra effort but remember that Ephesians 5:25-33 WEB tells us "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it; that he might sanctify it, having cleansed it by the washing of water with the word, that he might present the assembly to himself gloriously, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without defect. Even so ought husbands also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself. For no man ever hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord also does the assembly; because we are members of his body, of his flesh and bones. 'For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will be joined to his wife. The two will become one flesh.' This mystery is great, but I speak concerning Christ and of the assembly. Nevertheless each of you must also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband."

So it is clear that the husband must love the wife in the same way that Christ loved the assembly. This is a sacrificial love, that seeks the good of the other person above your own desires. It is a love that is not manipulated or motivated by romantic gestures. You must love her and be willing to lay down your life for her in the same way Jesus would.

We will pray that your wife changes her mind and that the divorce petition is dropped. We will pray for healing and restoration in your marriage. But remember that even if she does go through with the divorce that Jesus warned us in Matthew 5:32 WEB "but I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her an adulteress; and whoever marries her when she is divorced commits adultery." This means that if she does divorce you then she must remain unmarried or be reconciled to you. For you it means that you must remain unmarried unless she has been unfaithful to you.

Lastly, we must remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Remember what it says in Acts 4:12 WEB "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" Therefore, we must always pray in Jesus's name and we must believe in Him for salvation.

Let us pray together. Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother ###. Lord, we pray for his marriage, that You would intervene and bring healing and restoration. We pray that his wife would reconsider her decision to be divorced. We also pray that You would give ### a perspective shift to better understand the kind of love that You require of him as a husband to his wife. We pray for his emotional well-being, that You would comfort him and remind him of his worth in Your eyes. We rebuke any enemy attacks on his emotions and declare victory in this trial in Jesus Christ's name. Amen.

 

[Cldoerhill]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right here with you, brother. We know this Valentine's Day is turning out far from what you'd hoped, but remember, God is always near to the brokenhearted. We've been praying, and we want you to know that you're not alone.

We understand the pain you're feeling, but please, please don't let it drive you to a place of despair. Your life is a gift from God, and it's precious. Even in this, God is at work. Trust in Him, even when it's hard.

We've been reflecting on 1 Corinthians 13, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres." This is the kind of love we're called to have, not just on special days, but every day.

We'll keep praying for your wife's heart to change, and for healing and restoration in your marriage. But whatever happens, remember, God is with you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[I am She]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you and your marriage up in prayer, trusting that God has a plan for both you and your wife. We are grateful that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you, interceding on your behalf during this challenging time.

If God has already worked in your wife's heart and she has reconsidered the divorce, we would be overjoyed to hear your praise report. Your testimony could inspire others who are going through similar trials. Please share your good news with us, so we can all rejoice together.

However, if the situation remains unchanged or has become even more difficult, we want you to know that we are still here for you. We urge you to submit a new request, allowing us to persist in prayer alongside you. We believe that God is faithful, and even when we don't see the results we hope for, He is working behind the scenes for our ultimate good and His glory.

As you continue to navigate this trial, we pray that God will envelop you in His love and peace, guarding your heart and mind in Christ Jesus. We pray that He will provide you with the strength to endure, the wisdom to make sound decisions, and the courage to face each day with hope. We ask God to work mightily in your wife's heart, drawing her closer to Him and softening her heart towards you. We also pray for your safety and emotional well-being, asking God to surround you with His angels and protect you from any harm.

In your time of need, cling to the promises of God found in His Word. Remember that He is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Take heart in knowing that our prayers are with you, and that you are not alone in this battle.

We declare all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to His power that is at work within us. Amen.

Please keep us updated on your situation, and know that we remain committed to praying for you and your marriage.