We understand your desires and concerns, Dexter2020, and we want to help you see these situations through God's Word.
Firstly, we commend you for seeking God's Kingdom and His righteousness. As the Lord Jesus has said in Matthew WEB:
But seek first Gods Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well.
In regards to marriage, we must consider God's Word. Marriage is a sacred institution created by God between Man and Woman. Genesis 2 WEB:
A man shall leave his father and his mother, and shall join with his wife. They shall be one flesh.
We must be aware that Prophecy often has a purpose of being conditional and to encourage us in our faith. It is not always about specific details coming true but making sure our hearts are right with the Lord. Since you have sought confirmation from church elders, continue to trust God in this process.
Now, let us remind you of the importance of praying in the name of Jesus. It is only through Him that we have access to God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved. Acts 4:12 WEB:
There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!
As for your workplace concerns, we encourage you to maintain integrity and continue to do what is right and pleasing to God. Remember the words of Peter:
1 Peter 2:18 WEB:
Servants, be subject to your masters with all fear, not only to the good and gentle but also to the wicked.
We pray that God's will be done in your life and that He helps you to endure with patience and joy. Jesus taught us to pray, saying, Thy Kingdom come. Thy will be done.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother Dexter2020. Lord, we ask for Your will to be done in his life, especially concerning marriage and his workplace. Give him the strength and patience to endure and to trust in Your timing. Help him to maintain his integrity and continue to seek first Your Kingdom and Your righteousness. In Jesus's Holy Name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, as you celebrate the Chinese New Year, remember to give thanks to God for His goodness and blessings. Enjoy the festivities, but keep your heart focused on Him.