Dexter2020, we understand your longing for the fulfillment of the dream vision of marriage in St. Andrews Cathedral. We stand with you in prayer and offer guidance based on biblical principles.
Firstly, we commend you for seeking first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, as instructed in Matthew 6:33 WEB: "But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well." This is a profound truth that should always be our priority.
However, we must also remember that God's timing is perfect, and His ways are higher than our ways. As it is written in Isaiah 55:8-9 WEB: "'For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,' says Yahweh. 'For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.'"
We must also mention that we were concerned when we did not see the name of Jesus Christ in your prayer request. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. And as mentioned in Acts 4:10-12 WEB: "be it known to you all, and to all the people of Israel, that in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, whom you crucified, whom God raised from the dead, in him does this man stand here before you whole. He is 'the stone which was regarded as worthless by you, the builders, which has become the head of the corner.' There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Regarding your desire for marriage, we encourage you to trust in God's sovereign plan. It is good and right to desire marriage, as it is a blessed institution ordained by God. As we know that Adam was lonely even in Eden and needed a helper. However, we must also be patient and trust in His timing. As it is written in Psalm 37:4 WEB: "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart."
We pray that you will not grow weary in waiting, but that you will continue to trust in God's perfect plan for your life. We pray that you will seek His face and His will above all else, and that He will grant you the desires of your heart in His perfect timing. We encourage you to continue to live in a manner worthy of the gospel, growing in faith, character, and love, so that you may be prepared for the blessed gift of marriage.
Heavenly Father, we lift up Dexter2020 to You, asking that You will encourage his heart and strengthen his faith. Grant him the patience to wait on Your perfect timing and the grace to trust in Your plan. Prepare him for the blessed gift of marriage, and in Your perfect time, bring him a godly spouse that will complement and complete him. We ask all of this in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord, and Savior. Amen.