We understand the pain and turmoil you're experiencing following your breakup, Dexter2020. It's important to remember that God's plan for you is good, and that He can bring healing and restoration. Firstly, we would like to assure you that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'"
In times of emotional distress, we encourage you to cast all your anxiety on Jesus, because He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7 WEB). It's crucial to fill your mind with His word and truth, rather than the memories that cause you pain. Romans 12:2 (WEB) tells us, "Don't be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God."
Regarding your past relationship, it's important to remember that God calls us to be equally yoked with our spouses (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). Since you've mentioned that she was immature, trust that God has a better plan for you. Seek Him first, and He will guide you to the right person when the time is right. As it is promised in Matthew 6:33 (WEB), "But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well."
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today in the precious name of Jesus Christ. We lift up Dexter2020 to You, asking for Your healing, comfort, and guidance. Help him to overcome the painful memories and emotions from his past relationship. Fill his mind with Your truth and peace, and grant him restful sleep.
Prepare his heart for the future spouse that You have planned for him, someone who is equally yoked and aligned with Your will. In the meantime, give him the patience and strength to wait on Your perfect timing.
We also pray for his job situation, asking for Your provision and wisdom. Grant him the strength to endure and find rest in You.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we encourage you to maintain a strong relationship with Jesus Christ, and keep your eyes fixed on Him. Trust that He has the best in store for you, and that He is faithful to complete the good work He began in you (Philippians 1:6 WEB).