Dexter2020, we join you in prayer as you seek God's will for your life and the potential courtship with Felicia, and we commend you for acknowledging that Jesus is central to this process in using INJ at the end of your prayer request. It is crucial to remember that God's will is perfect, and He knows what is best for us.
First, let us remind you of the importance of seeking God's will in all aspects of our lives, including relationships mentioned in Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB: "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
As we pray for a sign of confirmation, we must also be aware of the importance of discernment and patience. God's timing is perfect, and we should not rush into any decision without being fully convinced that it is His will. Remember, a courtship should be a time of getting to know each other deeply with an intention towards marriage.
It is also essential to ensure that your relationship is founded on biblical principles. If either of you have had any sexual relations outside of marriage, in the past or present, this must be repented of and stopped immediately. Fornication and adultery are serious sins that God addresses clearly in His word.
1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB: "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."
In regards to witnesses of confirmation, it may not be a grand sign from heaven, but rather a peace and assurance from God that this is the path He has for you. It could be a sense of unity in your shared faith, values, and goals.
Join us in this prayer:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your will for Dexter2020 and Felicia. We ask that You guide them in Your wisdom and provide clear signs of confirmation if it is Your will for them to proceed with courtship and eventually a godly marriage. Help them to be patient, discerning, and obedient to Your Word.
If there is any area in their lives that does not align with Your will, reveal it to them, and grant them the grace to repent and turn away from it as mentioned in 2 Peter 3:9 that you are not intending that any perish but will that all come to repentance.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Let God's peace rule in your hearts, and may His will be done in your life. Keep us updated on how God is working in your life and on this situation.