pray for shannon to be a christian & know god when un believers are telling her

[lovesjesus7]

pray for shannon  to be a christian & know god when un believers are telling her that is not that way & tell her to go out and bring alcohol to her house and buy her wine &  drinks to her home and encourage her to go out & get with a man and have fun and don't go gods way because they are unbelievers , i got her to pray in the past and she was writing in a devotional but stopped after page 3 and now doesnt want to talk about god and throws scripture away or hides it. her dad influences her and tells her lies and says god blank all the time and cusses and drinks .her friends are the same and now i see her drinking alot or friends coming over to drink to influence her because they are taking advantage of her because shes depressed of losing her mom and is lonely and cries about her daily, they want to get in her graces because shes their boss and popular and pretty. and i am the only christian in her life and they are telling her i am a jesus freak basically and telling her lies about me and telling her to get rid of me and be happy regardless we have a child together and live together and now they are trying to babysit my daughter so they can lure her away from me for their own agenda and now she says she doesn't need me and shes actually saying that now, that she has friends and don't really need me much ? and i did nothing to her! but after her mom died it came crashing down and they came in like wolves!  and i am her husband and we have a 1 year old. and i  came back to god! Robbie is my name by the way and now what should i pray for? and what to believe? i know god can do anything, but i feeel someone is courting her because i saw 12 roses and she said just a friend..but with her nothing at all for me and no change.especially when she gets with her friends or friend...but do you have prayers i should pray for? now i just think she uses me to watch our child so she can go wherever she goes? she says she has to work but i find out she leaves early and comes home 4 hrs late,so clearly shes not at work the whole time at night and lately and says ill be home late? that hurts me...and i see her red eyes and can tell shes drinking but denies it , and i can smell it and i been with her for 5 years , i know when she drinks wine...her personality has changed latley ...so prayers to pray for?

 

[Haeng]

I pray with Robbie to help our friend in Jesus, pls give your guidance 

 

[Swiss Hart]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[lovesjesus7]

like tonight she doesnt have to work and is off work, but here i am with our child and says dont now when she will come home, i ask when a time? she says i dont know? and looks guilty pray for me i guess and her to be convicted of sin and out of temptation is the only thing i can ask for at this point. thanks

 

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[lovesjesus7]

Update Dec-9 ..I was courting her we were getting along, things were working and holding and she said maybe we might get back together.. But then I noticed a 360 she was pulling back-and-forth and when I did come over certain nights I noticed there was beer bottles in the trash and somebody's toothbrush and she doesn't drink beer and she doesn't drink much at all.  And I notice she has been getting text at two in the morning while I'm laying there next to her with our daughter ,I had a feeling somebody has been going there at night at times and then sneaking out when I got there in the morning ..One night I came over she didn't  answer the door or answer my call. Because she told me she was not going to be home that night but I noticed the lights were on so I stop bye as I usually do,she does not have blinds and I saw my daughter 1year old  by herself in a room , so I assumed she was doing laundry well when I went to that window there's an extra bed in there,  and there were pillows blocking the window and I thought that was strange so I went to the other window ..she was having sex with a guy ,That's why she was pulling back-and-forth what type a guy is going to sneak in at night and bring liquor  around my daughter and try to get a m0m in bed and  do that to my family !!!and he knows i am there by all my things is why he was sneaking in..he was grooming her the whole time! he finally won is why the pillows were on the window for the first time!!  what kind of woman at 37 years old a teacher and a mom would do something so disgusting like that while my daughter is also in the house.  While I'm doing the laundry cooking food ,repairing things in the house  taking her out for dinner given her roses given her back rubs like I used to do. And she's  sneaks around like that and doing that to me and a mom with a child in the house I was disgusted and I started crying .she was sneaking around with this guy on Sunday nights sometimes I wasn't there because i see in the trash beers bottles and she dont drink beer and rarely drinks is why he brinks liquor!!  and he finally got her in bed by being in her ear on texting every night!.. I'm shocked that she would do something like this it's not even in her character .maybe she needed to feel something else besides being depressed ?but still the next day she just lied to me and made up more lies and I told her I know I saw.and i looked in the trash you put outside of the bottle of wine and the beers and she said she drank them all and i said no you didnt and you would be drunk me coming home and i see the new two wine glasses with wine in it! and she said i used the two glasses ..just lies and lies. I said I could forgive her if she turns from her sin and she gets with God i will forgive her and tried to tell her you are on road of destruction and this leads to no where!. she just ignored me and and made up all the lies & i said we have a child together and you  want to to be in this un ungodly acts and your not even in a relationship with him! i barley get a hug and all i do and he just has sex with you and i am sick of what you did and cried in front of her and she walked away and i said it's going to lead to nowhere!!!you can get pregnant it's going to put you in hell! Diseases ! This guy brings liquor at late nights around my daughter ! Sneaks in and just to get you in bed ! That's evil ! and hes evil!  Your a mom and a teacher ! She got real  angry and told me to leave and said take your bible also. So I guess ill just watch my daughter and say nothing to her , but going to be hard being in there knowing what she did..i dont know how to act around her now? or what to say? how can she do this to me and our daughter ? all her students look up to her and believes in god ,i guess not ! but at the same time I've been super depressed I haven't eaten for week .. I've been crying constantly and laying on the floor very sick and no energy and I can't get those images out of my head what she did and lies and me loving her so much.. I beg for God to help me but I can't get it out of my head and I can't get out of this depression torments me all day and all night and all I do is sleep and cry and keep waking up from my mind and when I go to work I am crying I don't know what to do? I've called out to god help my mind ..this happen last Sunday . I get in the bible and sleep with it because the pain and my thoughts and heart and just cry and throw up .i sent scripture and she texted I don't want preaching!!and get your bible out of here ! She is so angry and yelling and I did Nothing ! You think she would feel sorry For me out of guilt! but I am in dark alot crying and church doesn't help . Fainting. Depression . I guess God isn't going To restore our family and having sex With that evil guy ,it's flesh tied and doubt she gets with God and stop that Ungodly acts with him and i am under dark emotional pain and cant stop crying and getting sick and on the holidays is so worse.

robbie

 

[lovesjesus7]

 

We had a talk she says I don't love you anymore but I'll give it five months to see , after 5 months if I don't want you , except it's over ..but at the same time I can't touch or hug or kiss or go anywhere or court her ? So how was that supposed to work? 
 
Also before this for two years we had strife and cause her mom had  cancer and were mean to each other but I saw the movie fireproof and no matter what I did she just stayed mad at me that's when all the stuff started to happen  but I saw the movie fireproof and a no matter what I did she just stayed mad that's when all the stuff started to happen ,but I did everything nice I did all the chores I did everything was very sweet to her but she was very cold and had a wall and she's like I don't believe it I don't think I can believe it I feel she was coming around and I was able to hug her she hugged me and we were nice laughing and then now after that Sunday she's cold and has a wall up, I hope she's not tricking me so she gets what she wants for five months and then she tells me no after five months but even though she said I'm giving you a chance but I'm confused now  so I'm trying to get advice from you how to act around her and how to treat her even though I'm nice and she doesn't want flowers she doesn't want me to do anything nice for her so please can you help me how to treat her and how to act with her now