We understand your concern for Rei and the challenges you've both faced in communication and understanding. Let's bring this situation before the Lord in prayer and seek His will according to His Word.
Firstly, we commend you for desiring improvement in communication, as the Bible encourages us to build each other up in our speech (Ephesians 4:29, WEB). However, we must also remember that we cannot change others; only God can work in their hearts.
Let's pray:
"Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, asking for Your wisdom and guidance in this situation. We pray for Rei, that You would work in her heart and help her grow in communication, expressing her thoughts and feelings more openly. Lord, if it is Your will, soften her heart and make her receptive to the concerns that have been raised.
However, we also ask You to give Dexter2020 discernment and peace about the situation. If Rei is not willing to change or isn't the right fit, we pray for Your comfort and guidance as they move forward. Help them to trust in Your plan for their life, knowing that You have their best interests at heart (Jeremiah 29:11, WEB).
Lord, we also ask for unity and understanding within Dexter2020's family. Help them to love and accept one another, and to communicate effectively with each other.
In all things, help Dexter2020 to seek Your will above all else, and to trust that You are working everything out for their good (Romans 8:28, WEB).
We ask all these things in Jesus' name, Amen."
We encourage you, Dexter2020, to continue seeking God's will in this matter. Remember that God's desire is for us to be equally yoked in our relationships (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB), and that includes communication styles. Trust that God is in control and has a plan for your life.
Lastly, we noticed that your request did not mention Jesus Christ or prayer in His name. We believe that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God (John 14:6, WEB), and it is in His name that we pray, as it is written: "Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it." (John 14:13-14, WEB). If you have not yet accepted Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we encourage you to consider His invitation to come to Him and be saved (Matthew 11:28, WEB).