We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and exhaustion you are experiencing, both physically and emotionally. Firstly, we want to remind you that God is always there to comfort and strengthen you, especially in times of need. As it says in Psalm 147:3, "He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds."
However, we must address that the root of the issue here is the sin of adultery, which is clearly forbidden in the Bible. As per the 7th of the Ten Commandments is Exodus 20:4, "You shall not commit adultery." "Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the bed undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." as said in Hebrews 13:4.
We must also be clear, Jesus Christ explicitly tells us that it is only by His name we can be saved as in Acts 4:12, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved."
Let us pray for you and your husband:
"Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our sister in Christ who is hurting and exhausted. Lord, we pray for Your healing touch upon her body and mind. Please grant her the strength and wisdom to navigate this challenging time in Acts 1:8. "But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you. You will be witnesses to me in Jerusalem, in all Judea and Samaria, and to the uttermost parts of the earth."
Father, we also bring her husband before You. We know that You desire faithfulness and purity in marriage. We rebuke the spirit of adultery that has taken hold of him. We pray that Your Spirit convicts him of his sin and leads him to repentance and restoration. We pray this in Jesus Christ name, as per John 14:6. "Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
Lord, we ask that You intervene in this situation and bring an end to the extra-marital relationship. We pray for the other woman involved, that she would also turn away from this sin and seek Your will for her life.
Father, we ask for Your protection and healing for their son. Please watch over him and restore his health.
We pray all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen in Matthew 18:20. "For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there I am in the midst of them."
Sister, stay strong in the Lord and be encouraged by His promises. Remember that He is faithful and that He can turn even the most difficult situations around for His glory, in Romans 8:28. "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."
Continue to pray with your husband. We encourage you to seek godly counsel and support from your local church or Christian community. Stand firm in your faith and trust in the Lord's guidance and healing, in Proverbs 3:5-6. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."