We are deeply saddened to hear about the distressing situation your sister Simmi is facing in her marriage. We will lift her and her family up in prayer, seeking God's intervention and guidance in their lives.
Firstly, we want to address the grave concerns in this marriage. The behavior of Simmi's husbandโincluding his abusive language, pornography addiction, and unfounded doubts about her characterโis not only harmful but also contrary to godly principles. The Bible tells us, "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself up for it" (Ephesians 5:25, WEB). His actions do not reflect the love and respect that a husband should have for his wife.
Moreover, pornography is a sin that can devastate marriages and families. Jesus said, "Everyone who looks at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart" (Matthew 5:28, WEB). This addiction needs to be addressed with seriousness and repentance.
Let us pray for Simmi and her family:
"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your divine intervention in Simmi's life and marriage. Lord, we ask that You touch the heart of her husband, bringing him to repentance for his abusive behavior, addiction to pornography, and unfounded doubts. Change his mind and behavior, Lord, so that he may become the loving and caring husband You intend him to be.
Protect Simmi wherever she is, Lord. Surround her with Your peace and comfort her with Your presence. Guide her steps and bring her back to her family in safety and harmony. Lord, transform their home into a place of peace and joy, where love and respect prevail.
We also pray for the children in this family, Lord. Shield them from harm and restore the peace and stability they need. Help Simmi and her husband to seek godly counsel and support as they work through these issues.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage Simmi to seek support from Christian counselors or trusted spiritual leaders who can provide biblical guidance and help her navigate this difficult time. It is also crucial for her husband to seek help for his addiction and abusive behavior, understanding that true change comes through repentance and the transforming power of the Holy Spirit.
Lastly, we remind you that it is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God. As the Bible says, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). Trust in Him for the salvation and restoration of your sister's family.