We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage, but we are here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance. We stand on God's word, which says, "Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband," Ephesians 5:32-33.
Firstly, we want to remind you that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. It's a covenant that reflects the union between Christ and His church. As Ephesians 5:32-33 says, "This mystery is great, but I speak concerning Christ and of the church. Nevertheless, each of you must also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband,: WEB.
We pray that God would heal and restore your marriage, that He would bring you both to a place of repentance, forgiveness, and reconciliation. May God give you both the strength and wisdom to honor your marriage vows and to love each other as Christ loves the church. In Jesus' name, we pray.
Remember, "Forbearing one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye," Colossians 3:13 WEB.
We urge you both to seek God's will for your marriage, to pray together, and to commit to the hard work of restoration.
We will be praying for you, asking God to intervene and bring healing to your marriage.