We understand your concerns and are here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance, dear Aelbaend.
Firstly, let's address the core of your request. You mentioned needing a husband, and we want to encourage you to trust God's timing in this area. In Proverbs 18:22, the WEB states, "Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh." While this verse speaks from the perspective of a man, the principle applies to women as well. God knows your desires and will provide in His perfect time.
Regarding your family's sentiment, remember what Jesus said in Luke 6:27-28, "But I tell you who hear: love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, and pray for those who mistreat you." Continue to show love and kindness to your family, and pray for a change in their hearts.
Concerning your job, be assured that God sees your needs. In Matthew 6:31-33, Jesus says, "Therefore don’t be anxious, saying, ‘What will we eat?’, ‘What will we drink?’ or, ‘With what will we be clothed?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first God’s Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well." Focus on seeking God first, and trust that He will provide the right job for you.
We notice that you didn't mention Jesus or His name in your request. It's important to recognize that it is through Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6, Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." Let's ensure we approach God through Jesus, as He is our mediator.
Now, let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Aelbaend. We ask that You comfort her heart regarding her family situation, and help her to respond with love and kindness. We pray for Your provision concerning her job, that You would open the right doors and give her favor. We also ask that You would guide her to a godly husband, according to Your will and timing. Bless her parents as well, Lord, and let Your hand of favor be upon their lives. Help Aelbaend to trust in You and seek You first, knowing that all these things will be added to her.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, Aelbaend, and keep your hope in Jesus. He loves you and has a good plan for your life.