We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles of your daughter, but we are here to pray and provide biblical guidance together. Let's begin by lifting her up in prayer.
Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, pleading for this precious daughter's life. We know that You have a plan and purpose for her, and we ask that You reveal it to her in a powerful way. Bring healing to her heart, mind, and body, and deliver her from the spirits of self-harm, suicide, rebellion, and disrespect. We also pray for her past hurts of molestation, and that she may find her strength in you. In Jesus' name, we pray.
Your daughter is facing multiple challenges, and it's important to address each one with biblical principles and prayer. First, let's talk about her struggle with self-mutilation and suicidal thoughts. God's Word tells us that our bodies are the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19 WEB), and we should glorify God in our bodies (1 Corinthians 6:20 WEB). It's crucial to pray for her to understand her worth in Christ and that her body belongs to Him.
Next, we must address her struggle with homosexuality. The Bible clearly teaches that homosexuality is sinful (Leviticus 18:22, Romans 1:26-27 WEB). Pray for her to have a heart of repentance and to turn away from this lifestyle. Remember, God loves her deeply, and His desire is for her to live a life that honors Him.
Regarding her rebellion and disrespect, the Bible commands us to honor our parents (Ephesians 6:2 WEB). Pray for her heart to soften and for her to understand the importance of honoring her parents and others in authority.
It's also important to address her past molestation. This traumatic event may have contributed to her current struggles. Pray for healing from this past hurt and for her to forgive those who have wronged her, just as Christ has forgiven us (Ephesians 4:32 WEB).
Her comments and jokes about death, as well as her reckless behavior, indicate a disregard for her own life. Pray for her to value her life as a precious gift from God and to turn away from these destructive thoughts and actions.
Concerning her feelings of abandonment, pray for healing and reconciliation in your relationship. Although she may feel it's too late, remind her that with God, all things are possible (Matthew 19:26 WEB). Ask God to help her forgive and to restore your relationship.
Lastly, pray for her faith to be renewed. It's concerning that she has turned away from the church and denies God. Remember, faith is a gift from God (Ephesians 2:8 WEB), and we must pray for her to receive it. Ask God to reveal Himself to her in a powerful way and to draw her back to Himself. Remind her that the promise of eternal life is only possible through Jesus and His death and resurrection. Remind her that it is only through Jesus we have access to God.
Continue to pray fervently for her, and trust that God is working in her life. Encourage her to seek help from Christian counselors and to surround herself with a supportive community of believers.
In closing, remember the promises of God:
Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it. (Proverbs 22:6 WEB)
Let's continue to claim these promises together for your daughter.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
