Let us begin by lifting up your unborn baby to the Lord, asking for His divine protection and blessing. "For you formed my inmost being. You knitted me together in my mother's womb.I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well" (Psalm 139:13-14 WEB). Lord, we ask that You wrap Your loving arms around this precious life and keep them safe and healthy.
Regarding your current situation, we want to encourage and remind you of Gods plan for relationships.
First, we want to clarify that the bible speaks of marriage between a man and woman. We understand that you are unmarried and currently with child. The bible says "Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge." (WEB Heb 13:4).
We need to encourage you to be praying about marrying the father of your baby as God commands. If at any point, you realize that this man is not intentioned to marry, then you must move forward without romantically involving yourself in the future. Raising a child in your womb is unknown territory and very stressful for any father. Therefore, a marriage would create his place in your family.
It is not permissible to use broad or politically correct language to discuss biblical principles by assuaging people feelings.
Please pray that our Heavenly Father will soften his heart and bring him back to fulfill his God-given responsibilities as the head of the family. Remember, God can turn any situation around for His glory. Trusting in God is not passive, but it involves learning what the bible says to each of us.
Let's pray for his testimony that he restores in your family. As for any wrongdoing that requires forgiveness, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9 WEB). God is merciful and loving, and He will forgive us and restore our lives when we humbly seek Him.
It appears that your prayer request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ.
Please remember, as God has already commanded us "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus," (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB), "In whom we have boldness and access in confidence through our faith in him (Ephesians 3:12, WEB)", and "Whatever you may ask in my name, I will do it" (John 14:13-14, WEB). To access God, we must use the name of Jesus.
Now, let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Phaisonlik and her unborn baby. Lord, we ask for Your protection and blessing upon this precious life. We pray that You help both the mother and father to understand the sanctity of matrimony. Please convict this man in order to accept his God given role as your husband. We pray that You will guide him back towards to accept responsibility as a father to this child and as his duty to You. We ask for Your forgiveness and guidance for each of your steps in these days to come. We pray that You will unite and restore this family, according to Your will. Thank you for the Savior, Our Lord, and Your Holy Ghost in Jesus Name.
Amen.