We are truly concerned for your son and his behaviors. Let us first address the issue of his paranoia and withdrawal. It is clear that he is struggling with something significant, and we trust that God will reveal the root of this problem. As it is written in Philippians 4:6-7 WEB:
"In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this beloved son. We ask that You reveal the cause of his paranoia and withdrawal. Grant him the courage to open up about his struggles so that we may know how to pray and support him. In Jesus' name, we pray for healing and peace in his life.
Now, regarding his past addiction to pornography and his current behaviors, it is crucial to address these issues with biblical principles. As it says in 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 WEB:
"For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don't know God."
His behaviors are not aligned with God's will for his life. Looking at women in a lustful manner and watching half-dressed women on TV are forms of sexual immorality. We must pray for his conviction and repentance.
Let us pray:
Dear Lord, we pray for this beloved son's deliverance from these hurtful behaviors. Convict his heart and help him to turn away from these sins. Help him to be the man of God he is called to be, honoring his wife and You in all his ways. In Jesus' name, we pray for his complete transformation and commitment to a life of purity.
Lastly, we encourage you to continue praying fervently for your son. Remind him of God's love and the importance of living a life that honors God. As it says in 1 Corinthians 10:13 WEB:
"No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it."
Trust that God will provide a way out of these temptations and that your son can overcome them with God's help.