We are blessed to join with you in prayer, seeking God's will for your life and the lives of your loved ones.
Firstly, let us address your plea for salvation and the assurance of forgiveness. The Bible tells us, For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life. For God didn’t send his Son into the world to judge the world, but that the world should be saved through him. He who believes in him is not judged. He who doesn’t believe has been judged already, because he has not believed in the name of the one and only Son of God. John 3:16-18 WEB.
It is wonderful that you acknowledge the need for Jesus to come into your heart. This is the most important decision anyone can make. If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. Romans 10:9-10 WEB.
For you to have the personal confirmation of forgiveness that you seek, consider these words, If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 1 John 1:9 WEB. Repent therefore, and turn again, that your sins may be blotted out, so that there may come times of refreshing from the presence of the Lord. Acts 3:19 WEB.
Now, let us pray for you, Dear Lord, we lift up this individual who seeks your face and asks for your forgiveness. We pray that they may confess and acknowledge You as their Lord and Savior, believing that You were raised from the dead, so that they may be saved. We ask that You grant them the assurance of their salvation and fill their heart with Your peace and love.
Regarding your concern for the mother of your children, we encourage you to pray for her with love and compassion. As it is written, Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, as with a weaker vessel, since she is a woman; and grant her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers won’t be hindered. 1 Peter 3:7 WEB.
Let us pray for her, Father God, we ask that You pour out Your blessings and support upon the mother of these children. Guide her in Your wisdom and surround her with Your love, that she may find comfort and strength in You to help her and the children.
Finally, we turn our hearts to your children. We trust in Your promise, Believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved, you and your household. Acts 16:31 WEB. Let us pray, Heavenly Father, we plead for the salvation of these precious children. Draw them to Yourself at an early age, that they may walk in Your truth all the days of their lives. Comfort them and be with them as they learn and grow.
In closing, we praise You, Lord Jesus Christ, for the hope and assurance we have in You. We ask that you be with this individual and their family, uniting them and guiding them in Your love. It is in Your precious name Jesus that we pray.