We understand that you are seeking prayer for your marriage, Lairyl, and we are here to intercede and provide biblical guidance.
Firstly, we want to remind you of the importance of submission to one another in marriage, as Ephesians 5:21 tells us, "subjecting yourselves to one another in the fear of Christ." However, it's crucial to understand that submission does not mean tolerating controlling or manipulative behavior. God wants us to live in harmony and love, as stated in Romans 12:18, "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men."
In cases where a spouse is controlling, it's important to set boundaries and communicate openly. Colossians 4:6 advises, "Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one." This means that you should respond with wisdom, grace, and firmness, not with aggression or passive acceptance of wrongdoing.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name to lift up Lairyl's marriage. Lord, we ask for Your guidance and wisdom in this situation. Help her to respond to her husband with the love, patience, and kindness that You show us, while also setting healthy boundaries. Change her husband's heart, Lord, and help him to understand the true meaning of love and mutual respect in a marriage. We pray for peace and harmony in their home. We ask this all in Jesus' name, amen."
Lastly, Lairyl, remember that God is your strength and refuge. Turn to Him in all circumstances, and He will guide you. As Psalm 46:1 reminds us, "God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble."
If your husband is not open to change, it may be wise to seek additional help, such as Christian counseling. Continue to pray and trust in God, and do not hesitate to reach out if you need further support.