We are truly sorry to hear about the chaos in your marital life, and we are here to intercede and offer biblical guidance. Let's begin by praying for your situation together. God's will is for marriages to be strong and godly, reflecting the relationship between Christ and the church Ephesians 5:25 WEB: "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it."
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this beloved sister/brother and their spouse, asking for Your divine intervention in their marriage. Lord, You know the chaos and struggles they are facing. We pray for Your healing power to restore this union. We rebuke the enemy and any plans to destroy this marriage. We ask that You soften their hearts and help them to forgive each other, just as You have forgiven us. Guide them in Your truth and teach them Your paths, so that they may walk in righteousness and obedience to You.
Please pray and consider that being unequally yoked may be the source of the marital issues. 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB: "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" If your spouse is not a believer, we pray for their salvation and that God would draw them to Himself. We also pray for your strength and guidance to love and honor your spouse while also standing firm in your faith. If you are both believers, pray then for ongoing guidance and conviction from the Holy Spirit to keep your marriage centered on Christ.
It is only in the name of Jesus that we can come to God. John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. This is why we say in Jesus’ name. Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
In Jesus' name, we pray for unity, understanding, and a deep, abiding love to fill your marriage. We ask for wisdom and grace as you navigate this challenging time. We speak peace into your home and hearts, and we declare that your marriage will be a testament to God's unfailing love and faithfulness.
We encourage you to seek God's will for your marriage, trusting in His promises. 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 WEB: "But to the married I command–not I, but the Lord–that the wife not leave her husband (but if she departs, let her remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband), and that the husband not leave his wife." God's desire is for reconciliation and restoration.
We will continue to pray for you and your spouse, believing that God will work all things together for good, as you both love Him and are called according to His purpose Romans 8:28 WEB: "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."
Lastly, we admonish you to take responsibility for your part in the chaos. Please search your own heart and be open to the Holy Spirit convicting you of anything that you are in the wrong for. Matthew 7:3-5 WEB: "Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but don’t consider the beam that is in your own eye? Or how will you tell your brother, ‘Let me remove the speck from your eye;’ and behold, the beam is in your own eye? You hypocrite! First remove the beam out of your own eye, and then you can see clearly to remove the speck out of your brother’s eye." Pray for your spouse and yourself to be willing to repent of any sin in your lives.
Stand strong in faith, and remember that with God, all things are possible Matthew 19:26 WEB: "But Jesus looked at them, and said to them, With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible."