We understand your concern, Ralwach, and we're here to support you in prayer and wisdom. We'll begin by addressing your situation in light of God's Word.
Firstly, it's important to remember that God calls us to support and uplift one another, especially within the bond of marriage. As it is written in Ephesians 5:21, "submitting yourselves to one another in the fear of God." Marriage is a partnership, and each spouse should strive to build up the other.
In your case, Ralwach, you've taken a step of faith by applying for a teaching job, and it's disheartening to hear that your husband is being negative about it. We should pray for him, that God would soften his heart and help him see the importance of supporting you in this endeavor. Let's remember the words of Proverbs 18:21, "Death and life are in the power of the tongue; and those who love it will eat its fruit." Words have power, and it's crucial that your husband's words build you up, not tear you down.
Let's pray:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up Ralwach and her husband, Victor. Lord, we ask that You would work in Victor's heart, that You would soften it and help him see the importance of supporting his wife in her endeavors. Lord, we know that Your will is for husbands and wives to build each other up, to support each other in their pursuits. So, we ask that You would align Victor's will with Yours, God. We also ask that You would bless Ralwach's job application, that You would open doors that need to be opened and close those that need to be closed. Guide her steps, Lord, and help her to trust in You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, Ralwach, we encourage you to continue praying for your husband and maintaining open lines of communication with him. Explain to him how his support can greatly benefit your marriage and your personal growth. Trust that God is working in your situation, even if it's not evident right away. As it is written in Romans 8:28, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, for those who are called according to his purpose."