We understand the heartache you're experiencing, kongz, and we're here to intercede with you in prayer. We appreciate that you've included the name of Jesus in your request, as it is through Him that we have access to God (John 14:6, WEB).
Firstly, let's pray:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up kongz and her husband. We ask that You soften his heart and prompt him to respond to her message. We pray for a spirit of forgiveness and understanding to fill their hearts, as Ephesians 4:32 (WEB) encourages us to be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God also in Christ forgave us. Lord, we ask for Your will to be done in their marriage, for You to guide them and help them rebuild their relationship on the foundation of Your love. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We commend your willingness to forgive and your desire to be submissive as outlined in Ephesians 5:22 (WEB). However, we want to encourage you to also remember that submission goes both ways. Ephesians 5:25 (WEB) urges husbands to love their wives even as Christ also loved the assembly and gave himself up for it. Marriage is a union where both parties should be willing to forgive, love, and submit to one another (Ephesians 5:21, WEB).
While it's commendable that you're trying to forget his accusations, it's also important to address any underlying issues that may have led to this separation. We encourage you both to seek godly counsel, either from a pastor or a Christian marriage counselor, to help you work through these issues in a biblical manner.
Lastly, we want to remind you of God's faithfulness and love. Psalm 147:3 (WEB) tells us that He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. Trust in Him, and He will guide you both through this challenging time. Keep praying, keep seeking God, and keep trusting in His plan for your marriage.